I've never admitted this before, but I don't like my child. He is so disrepectful and does nothing but bring all of those around him down. He just turned 14 and does absolutely NOTHING. He won't even take showers or brush his teeth. He cares about nothing except smoking pot and hanging out with friends. He stays out all night and could care less about rules. He has sex, steals, and lies. He has had a very good life and has many people who love him, but no one wants him anymore. He refuses to go to any treatment or counseling. I am a single mother and I don't have any money for private treatment. As of August 1st, he longer has insurance. I don't want any help other than advice on how to remove him. What steps can I take to relinquish all parental rights? I refuse to spend my life looking for ways to help him. Guilt and fear have kept me from actively pursuing having him removed but it's 5am and he isn't home. I don't feel anything but anger so now is the time to act. No fear. No guilt. I cant do this anymore.Suggestions?