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<blockquote data-quote="4sumrzn" data-source="post: 125436" data-attributes="member: 4133"><p>Oh my....you just brought tears to my eyes. I'm going to start from the bottom of your post & go up....a religious school. I went to one all through grade school & if there was any way financially that I could have figured out a way for easy child to attend from the beginning, I would have done it (I wasn't going to ask family or take out a loan). SO, with that being said....I think it is wonderful you have chosen to go with private school & know there is hope, along with G-D above (and this is coming from one that is no longer considered religious because we do not make it to church, do not send our kids to private school...but still believe). You are doing what you believe is the best when it comes to education.</p><p> </p><p>It boils down to:</p><p>*every day is a struggle to be with him <span style="color: magenta">*I'm with you</span></p><p>*we are going broke <span style="color: magenta">*I'm with you</span></p><p>*we have no life <span style="color: magenta">*I'm with you</span></p><p>*we have no options for either child <span style="color: magenta">*I feel I don't sometimes for difficult child</span></p><p>*kids really do not want to be with him (either do we) <span style="color: magenta">*I'm with you</span></p><p>*medications medications and more medications that are not helping enough to make him function <span style="color: magenta">*I've been back & forth on the medications</span></p><p> </p><p>"I don't get why he is the way he is. I don't understand what we should do. There are no schools that can really understand his needs. The special needs schools here are only for Learning Disability (LD) or ADHD. And forget the public schools." <span style="color: magenta">That's an every day question for me.... I don't get why 'she' is the way she is ". And, public schools "might" be an option for you. I have not crossed the path with the school yet, but fully expect it. Not quite sure why it's just "Learning Disability (LD)/ADHD" where you are? It shouldn't matter, JMO. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: magenta">I 'm going to just throw out here...</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #ff00ff">my easy child is a wonderful, smart, gifted young man that is going through teenage years & that comes with "stuff". BUT, I will admit, the boy has been through WAY more than a child should ever have to when it comes to living life with a difficult child. I feel he's been robbed of certain things. BUT, he has also learned that this is our life, we need to do the best we can with what has been given to us. Good days & bad. I know a school change...losing friends every day....overwhelming big adjustment, could be rough, but may take a bit of stress off easy child in a different way (been there). Just throwing that out because we tend to forget sometimes that easy child's are what they are......."normal" in my eyes <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></span></p><p> </p><p>"I dread being with my son every day. I love him, I can't stand him, I feel for him, I resent him and I just think what if he never was. " <span style="color: magenta">I'm with you. It's a battle most days. It's so very hard when we don't know how to "fix" things. I would give up SO MUCH for my difficult child if I just had the faintest idea how to "fix" her. I can't "give up" anything, because I have no clue. I just have to give & that's all I can do. I believe that's what we all do. If we had the magic, we would perform it. He's here & you love him.</span></p><p> </p><p>"I can't stop crying. I don't know how long I can do this. Every day is a struggle and new problems keep coming." <span style="color: magenta">I don't cry as much because I realized my difficult child tends to like it for some reason!? But, I also know you are a wonderful Mommy & will do this as long as it takes to make it better. That's what we do right?</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #ff00ff">It always takes me forever to reply, getting up & down for this and that. Sorry for all the typos. But, I hope I didn't make my book too long here...I just wanted to let you know that I understand, many others do too. </span></p><p><span style="color: #ff00ff">{{{HUGS}}}</span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="4sumrzn, post: 125436, member: 4133"] Oh my....you just brought tears to my eyes. I'm going to start from the bottom of your post & go up....a religious school. I went to one all through grade school & if there was any way financially that I could have figured out a way for easy child to attend from the beginning, I would have done it (I wasn't going to ask family or take out a loan). SO, with that being said....I think it is wonderful you have chosen to go with private school & know there is hope, along with G-D above (and this is coming from one that is no longer considered religious because we do not make it to church, do not send our kids to private school...but still believe). You are doing what you believe is the best when it comes to education. It boils down to: *every day is a struggle to be with him [COLOR=magenta]*I'm with you[/COLOR] *we are going broke [COLOR=magenta]*I'm with you[/COLOR] *we have no life [COLOR=magenta]*I'm with you[/COLOR] *we have no options for either child [COLOR=magenta]*I feel I don't sometimes for difficult child[/COLOR] *kids really do not want to be with him (either do we) [COLOR=magenta]*I'm with you[/COLOR] *medications medications and more medications that are not helping enough to make him function [COLOR=magenta]*I've been back & forth on the medications[/COLOR] "I don't get why he is the way he is. I don't understand what we should do. There are no schools that can really understand his needs. The special needs schools here are only for Learning Disability (LD) or ADHD. And forget the public schools." [COLOR=magenta]That's an every day question for me.... I don't get why 'she' is the way she is ". And, public schools "might" be an option for you. I have not crossed the path with the school yet, but fully expect it. Not quite sure why it's just "Learning Disability (LD)/ADHD" where you are? It shouldn't matter, JMO. [/COLOR] [COLOR=magenta]I 'm going to just throw out here...[/COLOR] [COLOR=#ff00ff]my easy child is a wonderful, smart, gifted young man that is going through teenage years & that comes with "stuff". BUT, I will admit, the boy has been through WAY more than a child should ever have to when it comes to living life with a difficult child. I feel he's been robbed of certain things. BUT, he has also learned that this is our life, we need to do the best we can with what has been given to us. Good days & bad. I know a school change...losing friends every day....overwhelming big adjustment, could be rough, but may take a bit of stress off easy child in a different way (been there). Just throwing that out because we tend to forget sometimes that easy child's are what they are......."normal" in my eyes ;)[/COLOR] "I dread being with my son every day. I love him, I can't stand him, I feel for him, I resent him and I just think what if he never was. " [COLOR=magenta]I'm with you. It's a battle most days. It's so very hard when we don't know how to "fix" things. I would give up SO MUCH for my difficult child if I just had the faintest idea how to "fix" her. I can't "give up" anything, because I have no clue. I just have to give & that's all I can do. I believe that's what we all do. If we had the magic, we would perform it. He's here & you love him.[/COLOR] "I can't stop crying. I don't know how long I can do this. Every day is a struggle and new problems keep coming." [COLOR=magenta]I don't cry as much because I realized my difficult child tends to like it for some reason!? But, I also know you are a wonderful Mommy & will do this as long as it takes to make it better. That's what we do right?[/COLOR] [COLOR=#ff00ff]It always takes me forever to reply, getting up & down for this and that. Sorry for all the typos. But, I hope I didn't make my book too long here...I just wanted to let you know that I understand, many others do too. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#ff00ff]{{{HUGS}}}[/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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