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<blockquote data-quote="neednewtechnique" data-source="post: 41838" data-attributes="member: 3527"><p>That's exactly the point...I KNOW that each and EVERY time she throws a fit, she DOES NOT like the way she feels when she FINALLY DOES reach the out of control point in the meltdown. It never starts OUT being uncontrollable, but if she DISLIKES being out of control, why does she CHOOSE to get it started in the first place. Even when she IS NOT raging, she will tell us that her every intention is to make us miserable. That's why I can't figure out what's real and what's part of her con. This is what her psychiatrist was saying too, is that she feels that a lot of it right now isn't related to her disorder, it is just her being difficult on purpose. And she needs to get to know our difficult child better before she can make a decision of how to treat her. </p><p></p><p>Maybe our difficult child is the exception to the rule, but on the same hand, we have not raised her from birth, we are stepping into her life, uninvited, at a very fragile time for a girl, and so we don't even have a built trusting relationship with her at all to work off of. Also, everything she has seen and been through has made her so tough and hardened her heart and she just has so much hate and anger that she is stone cold.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="neednewtechnique, post: 41838, member: 3527"] That's exactly the point...I KNOW that each and EVERY time she throws a fit, she DOES NOT like the way she feels when she FINALLY DOES reach the out of control point in the meltdown. It never starts OUT being uncontrollable, but if she DISLIKES being out of control, why does she CHOOSE to get it started in the first place. Even when she IS NOT raging, she will tell us that her every intention is to make us miserable. That's why I can't figure out what's real and what's part of her con. This is what her psychiatrist was saying too, is that she feels that a lot of it right now isn't related to her disorder, it is just her being difficult on purpose. And she needs to get to know our difficult child better before she can make a decision of how to treat her. Maybe our difficult child is the exception to the rule, but on the same hand, we have not raised her from birth, we are stepping into her life, uninvited, at a very fragile time for a girl, and so we don't even have a built trusting relationship with her at all to work off of. Also, everything she has seen and been through has made her so tough and hardened her heart and she just has so much hate and anger that she is stone cold. [/QUOTE]
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