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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 573982" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>I don't know what happened to my previous account, but I had to re-register. It's still me. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p></p><p>This whole thing is such a mess. She was dating another M at the same time. Of course my first thought is this baby is the other M's. How could she be with the original M for over a year and just get pregnant now?? Doesn't make any sense. Of course, he knows about the other M and has the same thoughts and concerns. I told him he needs to figure out if he loves her enough to stick by her no matter what. Wouldn't be fair to any of them to stick through a pregnancy only to have him take off once a dna test is done. </p><p></p><p>He found them an apartment but needs to come up with the money for it. Really?? They have NO place to live yet they are bringing a baby into the world. I asked her if she wanted the baby and she said yes, because it is M's baby and she is convinced of that. Though she admitted to me that she had slept with each of them ON THE SAME DAY once in December. OMG!!!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> She swears the other M told her he had a vasectomy and they used condoms. I told her men LIE and condoms were not 100%. I told her the absolute best thing for her to do right now is turn herself in, get in front of the judge and tell him that she is a pregnant drug addict that very much wants and needs help. They have a drug court there. I bet the judge would let her attend rehab as an alternative sentence. Rehab is better for a pregnant woman than jail! She is just being dumb right now... </p><p></p><p>She also told me that she has not put anything into her body since she found out she was pregnant. M says she is a miserable bear to say the least. I told them both that is the withdrawals...but goodness knows what damage has already been done to this baby. Goodness knows the health problems this child may have from the years of destruction she has done to herself. </p><p></p><p>husband is not happy. Stamps his foot and says no way is she and the baby going to live here. Well, that wasn't even a thought. She wouldn't live here if we asked her to. She won't even move into her own place in this county. </p><p></p><p>Me? I am so torn. I agree, babies are such a blessing and I could hold out hope it would be what makes her change her life around, but things are just too messy...I wish I could be excited about being a grandma, but I just can't right now. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 573982, member: 15796"] I don't know what happened to my previous account, but I had to re-register. It's still me. :) This whole thing is such a mess. She was dating another M at the same time. Of course my first thought is this baby is the other M's. How could she be with the original M for over a year and just get pregnant now?? Doesn't make any sense. Of course, he knows about the other M and has the same thoughts and concerns. I told him he needs to figure out if he loves her enough to stick by her no matter what. Wouldn't be fair to any of them to stick through a pregnancy only to have him take off once a dna test is done. He found them an apartment but needs to come up with the money for it. Really?? They have NO place to live yet they are bringing a baby into the world. I asked her if she wanted the baby and she said yes, because it is M's baby and she is convinced of that. Though she admitted to me that she had slept with each of them ON THE SAME DAY once in December. OMG!!!! :( She swears the other M told her he had a vasectomy and they used condoms. I told her men LIE and condoms were not 100%. I told her the absolute best thing for her to do right now is turn herself in, get in front of the judge and tell him that she is a pregnant drug addict that very much wants and needs help. They have a drug court there. I bet the judge would let her attend rehab as an alternative sentence. Rehab is better for a pregnant woman than jail! She is just being dumb right now... She also told me that she has not put anything into her body since she found out she was pregnant. M says she is a miserable bear to say the least. I told them both that is the withdrawals...but goodness knows what damage has already been done to this baby. Goodness knows the health problems this child may have from the years of destruction she has done to herself. husband is not happy. Stamps his foot and says no way is she and the baby going to live here. Well, that wasn't even a thought. She wouldn't live here if we asked her to. She won't even move into her own place in this county. Me? I am so torn. I agree, babies are such a blessing and I could hold out hope it would be what makes her change her life around, but things are just too messy...I wish I could be excited about being a grandma, but I just can't right now. :( [/QUOTE]
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