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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 574055" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>Thank you Nancy. I do remember! The roller coaster never seems to stop, does it?? </p><p></p><p>M is really stepping up to the plate and feels that she and the baby are his responsibility. I agree. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> We have been talking a lot over Facebook and now via text. I can't believe I am going to say this, but I like him. I really do. I think he does have a good head on his shoulders and I know he was living a really good life before he got messed up with drugs. I know his aunt and he does come from a really good family that is supporting him 100% in his recovery. His facebook pictures from before he got into drugs show that he was living a good, decent life. Then he tried dope and became an addict. I do believe he is clean and I believe him when <em>he</em> told me she has been clean. I honestly think they have a shot if they work really hard for it. Hopefully this is the turning point. I can only pray. I feel thankful that she at least has him in the picture and he is committed. He certainly seems to be. He is trying to get me to calm down and reassure me that everythign will be okay. He says while they may not have much right now, that he is thankful just to have her by his side. He loves her. No doubt. For that, I am thankful. She told me today that he is taking good care of her. She sounded happier... </p><p></p><p>I called the police station where she had court and had difficult child's name run for a warrant. They have not issued one, yet! They showed her charge, but no warrant. I cannot believe this girl's luck. I told her she needs to make an appointment with the DA, explain her situation and ask for more time to clear her fines, etc. Regardless, I can now take her to get the pregnancy confirmation and apply for benefits. </p><p></p><p>I hate that she will be another pregnant young girl on welfare, but on the other hand, husband and I have paid<em> in</em> for so long why shouldn't she use them if she needs them? I did at first until I was on my feet...</p><p></p><p>husband is still not happy one bit about any of this. His concern is the potential health problems of the baby. Mine are, too. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> God, I pray that child gets a chance...</p><p></p><p>So, that is where we are. I'll update tomorrow after I get back from seeing them. It has been a crazy couple of days....thank you all for being here for me!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 574055, member: 15796"] Thank you Nancy. I do remember! The roller coaster never seems to stop, does it?? M is really stepping up to the plate and feels that she and the baby are his responsibility. I agree. :) We have been talking a lot over Facebook and now via text. I can't believe I am going to say this, but I like him. I really do. I think he does have a good head on his shoulders and I know he was living a really good life before he got messed up with drugs. I know his aunt and he does come from a really good family that is supporting him 100% in his recovery. His facebook pictures from before he got into drugs show that he was living a good, decent life. Then he tried dope and became an addict. I do believe he is clean and I believe him when [I]he[/I] told me she has been clean. I honestly think they have a shot if they work really hard for it. Hopefully this is the turning point. I can only pray. I feel thankful that she at least has him in the picture and he is committed. He certainly seems to be. He is trying to get me to calm down and reassure me that everythign will be okay. He says while they may not have much right now, that he is thankful just to have her by his side. He loves her. No doubt. For that, I am thankful. She told me today that he is taking good care of her. She sounded happier... I called the police station where she had court and had difficult child's name run for a warrant. They have not issued one, yet! They showed her charge, but no warrant. I cannot believe this girl's luck. I told her she needs to make an appointment with the DA, explain her situation and ask for more time to clear her fines, etc. Regardless, I can now take her to get the pregnancy confirmation and apply for benefits. I hate that she will be another pregnant young girl on welfare, but on the other hand, husband and I have paid[I] in[/I] for so long why shouldn't she use them if she needs them? I did at first until I was on my feet... husband is still not happy one bit about any of this. His concern is the potential health problems of the baby. Mine are, too. :( God, I pray that child gets a chance... So, that is where we are. I'll update tomorrow after I get back from seeing them. It has been a crazy couple of days....thank you all for being here for me! [/QUOTE]
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