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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 574685" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>Okay, I can finally update more. Finally met M face to face. He sure is polite. VERY polite. He was amazed at how I swept in, handed difficult child prenatal vitamins and juice and told her what to do. He was amazed she did what I told her...lol. We talked about a lot and I think M got a glimpse of some of the victim playing difficult child has done. difficult child has the story that she was neglected growing up. Oh steam was coming out of my ears on that one. I went off about all the trouble she has been in her entire life and then becoming a drug addict. I told her straight out, not only was she not neglected, but she drained every ounce of energy and attention in this house!! How could anyone possibly neglect her??? She has been found out. He guessed that she was spoiled growing up and he was right. He started saying it was all making sense now...</p><p></p><p>They are going to struggle and be starting out with nothing. But, we did, too and we got to a great place. I am really praying the same for them. </p><p></p><p>I do believe I have come to the conclusion that the phone records are a sure tell. Since difficult child got clean again, there is no phone usage after 10pm and before 8am. Same as when she was in rehab...that is certainly a good sign...</p><p></p><p>I am starting to come to grips with it all, as sad as the situation is. For some reason, God saw fit to bless them with a child. I can only pray it was to force them to get on and <em>stay</em> on the right path. She had confided to me that while she slept with the other guy a couple of times, they used condoms and he didn't "finish". too much information, but that coupled with the fact that M had been clean for months and she got pregnant the week he got out of jail, well - we are hoping it <em>is</em> M's. At least I know he will be in the picture...</p><p></p><p>They took a big step that they have never done before. They have it on Facebook that they are in a relationship. I call him baby daddy. He doesn't like it, but he is so beyond polite. He prefers to be called papa or daddy. He says baby daddy implies he is not with difficult child and in the picture. husband said until he marries his daughter, he is baby daddy. LOL husband is also trying to curse difficult child with not only a girl, but twin girls. difficult child was horrified at the thought but we all got a good laugh. I think with the horseshoe that she apprently has had up her butt all these years, she will end up with a son like easy child. </p><p></p><p>They will be moving an hour away. I don't like it. I wish it was closer. Not that I want them living here, <em>of course</em>, I just wish it was closer so that she does have me nearby for support. This may not be the ideal situation right now, but this is my grandchild and I want to be in my grandchild's life. I have zero control over the situation and zero say in the matter. They have been together a year and a half, are still very much together and happy about the baby. </p><p></p><p>So I can only pray, help them where I can, and pray some more....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 574685, member: 15796"] Okay, I can finally update more. Finally met M face to face. He sure is polite. VERY polite. He was amazed at how I swept in, handed difficult child prenatal vitamins and juice and told her what to do. He was amazed she did what I told her...lol. We talked about a lot and I think M got a glimpse of some of the victim playing difficult child has done. difficult child has the story that she was neglected growing up. Oh steam was coming out of my ears on that one. I went off about all the trouble she has been in her entire life and then becoming a drug addict. I told her straight out, not only was she not neglected, but she drained every ounce of energy and attention in this house!! How could anyone possibly neglect her??? She has been found out. He guessed that she was spoiled growing up and he was right. He started saying it was all making sense now... They are going to struggle and be starting out with nothing. But, we did, too and we got to a great place. I am really praying the same for them. I do believe I have come to the conclusion that the phone records are a sure tell. Since difficult child got clean again, there is no phone usage after 10pm and before 8am. Same as when she was in rehab...that is certainly a good sign... I am starting to come to grips with it all, as sad as the situation is. For some reason, God saw fit to bless them with a child. I can only pray it was to force them to get on and [I]stay[/I] on the right path. She had confided to me that while she slept with the other guy a couple of times, they used condoms and he didn't "finish". too much information, but that coupled with the fact that M had been clean for months and she got pregnant the week he got out of jail, well - we are hoping it [I]is[/I] M's. At least I know he will be in the picture... They took a big step that they have never done before. They have it on Facebook that they are in a relationship. I call him baby daddy. He doesn't like it, but he is so beyond polite. He prefers to be called papa or daddy. He says baby daddy implies he is not with difficult child and in the picture. husband said until he marries his daughter, he is baby daddy. LOL husband is also trying to curse difficult child with not only a girl, but twin girls. difficult child was horrified at the thought but we all got a good laugh. I think with the horseshoe that she apprently has had up her butt all these years, she will end up with a son like easy child. They will be moving an hour away. I don't like it. I wish it was closer. Not that I want them living here, [I]of course[/I], I just wish it was closer so that she does have me nearby for support. This may not be the ideal situation right now, but this is my grandchild and I want to be in my grandchild's life. I have zero control over the situation and zero say in the matter. They have been together a year and a half, are still very much together and happy about the baby. So I can only pray, help them where I can, and pray some more.... [/QUOTE]
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