To me, and not all teens do it, but experimenting in the typical way is usually with a group of friends and drinking or pot. I would be concerned a lot if it was me. And "someone else did it" is the normal lack of logical response of drug users. I feel for you. My daughter started using drugs at twelve and it's so hard when they are so young. However, we also have time to help them stop when they are young. My daughter quit at 19. I didn't know it. Has your son ever experimented with drugs in the past that you know of?
I know how you feel and am so sorry.
