I've looked up borderline personality disorder and my goodness, my d c fits every description other than the threatening suicide/self harm. Although I suspect she will go that route once she realizes I'm not changing my mind and in essence has "lost" me. I'm waiting for that...
If she contacts me do I suggest she looks into this and gets help? Her psychologist clearly hasn't clued into the similarities. And I'm kind of angry that I've paid $175 every two weeks (for the last year!!) to this person and there's been no mention of this?! Just how great she is & how mature she is...now that she's 18 I have no way to legally help her. Had I known this sooner, I would've gotten her proper help.
Now I'm just mad.