Looking, if she is borderline, and she sure has many traits, they can manipulate the arabs into buying sand. But you have to be careful with therapists anyway. My dsughters therapist, while daughter was using drugs, told us that her therapist said we needed to trust her more. Excuse me??? She stole, lied all the time and cut school (saying the school attendance people messed up) and therapist told her we should TRUST her more???? How????
She wanted to stop going and I was done taking her to see him anyway. She used him to make her drug abuse OUR problem. I can think of better ways to spend our little money.
My daughter quit drugs on her own without a therapist. After that experience I decided to pay for a therspist to help myself, not her. I needed it, I was stressed to the max I told the truth and I learned how to best deal with the intense fear I felt for my daughter.
You can not do anything to fix your daughter or anyone on earth except for you. But you can and should take care of you and maybe see your own therapist to learn how to cope with a very difficult daughter. You are a good person and deserve to help yourself.
Wishing you better things from this day forward...big hugs.
