New beginnings for all of you.
It is hard, but you are doing the best thing for your daughter and your family.
This is loving detachment and it is on your terms. When you feel comfortable, you will have contact with her, she is your daughter. Take the time you need to heal and rebuild. You are entitled to have peace of mind and heart. She will most likely be very surprised at your stand, but will also learn a valuable lesson that you are not a rug to be tread upon.
I over helped far to many times with my two and ended up prolonging the problem for all of us.
Keep working on building yourself up dear and post as much as you can.
(((Hugs)))
leafy
