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<blockquote data-quote="Lookingforthelight" data-source="post: 682962"><p>Thank you for your replies and I get what you're all saying and I don't disagree.</p><p></p><p>I do have control issues, it's always been a way I feel safe, if I'm controlling something or in this case someone. It truly is the scariest thing for me to let go of her & let her fly on her own. But I know that's the only thing that can happen in order for both of us to grow. I loved what Cedar said and thank you for sharing his/her posts with me.</p><p></p><p>I'm sad. I'm grieving. This may or may not help her. And I have to be ok with that. I know I need to focus on me & my other daughter. It's just hard when I feel so down and like I failed somehow raising her. I feel like my family is broken. </p><p></p><p>I just wanted to get out what I was feeling yesterday. And I'm having hope that as each day passes this will be easier for me to digest & accept.</p><p></p><p>Have a good day everyone. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lookingforthelight, post: 682962"] Thank you for your replies and I get what you're all saying and I don't disagree. I do have control issues, it's always been a way I feel safe, if I'm controlling something or in this case someone. It truly is the scariest thing for me to let go of her & let her fly on her own. But I know that's the only thing that can happen in order for both of us to grow. I loved what Cedar said and thank you for sharing his/her posts with me. I'm sad. I'm grieving. This may or may not help her. And I have to be ok with that. I know I need to focus on me & my other daughter. It's just hard when I feel so down and like I failed somehow raising her. I feel like my family is broken. I just wanted to get out what I was feeling yesterday. And I'm having hope that as each day passes this will be easier for me to digest & accept. Have a good day everyone. :) [/QUOTE]
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