Hi Janie67, welcome to the forum. So sorry for your troubles with your sons that have led you to us. It is a good place to be for folks like us who are dealing with a very tough journey. It was wonderful of you to respond here on Lookings thread. Thank you so very much for sharing your story and offering comfort. It helps to know that we are not alone in dealing with the choices of our d cs. When I respond to posts, I am writing to myself as much to others, reaffirming my own course along the pathway. It has helped me very much to be here.
When you feel up to it, please consider posting your story on a separate thread. More members will see that you are here as a new member and will welcome you and respond to your story.
I am so sorry for your hurting mommy heart.

You are not alone, dear.
(((HUGS)))
leafy