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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 754566" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I don't think it's a question of strength. Strength we have in spades. I think turning is something we can do in a "blink of an eye." It's just to remember to turn and abracadabra we have.</p><p></p><p>And I also think "turning" gives our relationships the greater potential to turn, too. When we keep digging down the same rabbit holes, perseverating about "why" we too are responsible for the digging down into oblivion. That is on us.</p><p></p><p>When we dig, we are caving out our own spirits. We do that. Not our children. But we're also destroying the potential for their to be new ground to grow. Anything and everything. Maybe that's a perverse reason why we destroy. It's too protect.</p><p></p><p>Personally, I think "why" questions or "why me" questions are designed to hurt. To punish. To blame. What at first starts out as anger at our kids, we direct against ourselves. When we ask "why" we turn our anger (at them, at life, etc.) against ourselves. I think that's why when we stop it there is such release, and the welling up of potential and life force which we've kidnapped to use in why questions which are really clubs turned against ourselves.</p><p></p><p>You know that meme Free Melania? I want to Free Copa. I'm trying.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 754566, member: 18958"] I don't think it's a question of strength. Strength we have in spades. I think turning is something we can do in a "blink of an eye." It's just to remember to turn and abracadabra we have. And I also think "turning" gives our relationships the greater potential to turn, too. When we keep digging down the same rabbit holes, perseverating about "why" we too are responsible for the digging down into oblivion. That is on us. When we dig, we are caving out our own spirits. We do that. Not our children. But we're also destroying the potential for their to be new ground to grow. Anything and everything. Maybe that's a perverse reason why we destroy. It's too protect. Personally, I think "why" questions or "why me" questions are designed to hurt. To punish. To blame. What at first starts out as anger at our kids, we direct against ourselves. When we ask "why" we turn our anger (at them, at life, etc.) against ourselves. I think that's why when we stop it there is such release, and the welling up of potential and life force which we've kidnapped to use in why questions which are really clubs turned against ourselves. You know that meme Free Melania? I want to Free Copa. I'm trying. [/QUOTE]
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