So difficult child's PO called me yesterday. She told me if difficult child turns herself in on a Wednesday, she will only spend one night in juvie and then go to court the following day. She told me she will recommend to the judge that she continue on the same probation. She will consider community service completed (because she did do it all, she just lost the log), and the only thing difficult child will have to do is the drug and alcohol classes once a week and then she is free and clear. Easy peasy right?? So I text difficult child and let her know the deal she is being offered. The response I get??? "Um, that is what would happen if I got caught". I tell her no, if she gets caught, PO could recommend tme in lock up. I told her she would be pure dumb not to take the deal and get it taken care of. No response. So, I flew back in to Atlanta last night and I am texting difficult child to find out where I needed to pick her up today. I took today off to bring her to the doctor because she is having female issues. No response from her at all. Nothing. I remind her that I took the day off for her. Nothing. I check the phone records this morning and she was on the phone all night long. But she couldn't be bothered to reply to me. So I text her asking if she was really blowing me off after I took the day off. (I didn't get home from the airport until after midnight last night so I am glad I am not going in anyway, but that is not the point!) She replies that she is trying to get a ride to the area, and that she needs to shower because she looks rough. Well, obviously, she was up all night and my guess is she was probably using. She then tells me that she is nervous I am going to turn her in. I told her I am not turning her in. She needs to do that herself because it was the smart thing to do. I then told her that I am just trying to help her take steps to fix her issues and build a life for herself other than drugs and crime. I also told her that if she is choosing to continue living the way she is, that there is nothing else I can do for her. I will support her in every way when she chooses to do the right thing. I ask her to please tell me if she plans on going to the doctor because I need to know whether to start getting ready or not. I told her I would drive out there to pick her up. If not, my butt is going to sit here and enjoy my coffee.... No response. Nothing. I sent a text of ????????????????. Still, nothing. So I text her back saying I am assuming she is not going to the doctor. Nothing. I know I really don't want to see her right now anyway. I have a feeling she has been using and I don't want anything to do with that. Dealing with her when she has used is living hades. Thankfully the bartending school certificate I bought for her 18th birthday is good until February. Hopefully she pulls her head out of her butt before then. Otherwise, my husband said he will use it so it doesn't go to waste. I am SO mad right now I could spit nails. So much for feeling sad and crying over the life difficult child has chose for herself. I am too mad to be sad. Thanks difficult child.