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Now difficult child Won't See Me or Call Me
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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 317262" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>(((HUGS)) It is sad that he's in jail with no contact from his family. But remember, he did this to himself, it's his fault, sad as it is. Believe me, he'll contact you, he'll want you to do stuff, buy him stuff, bail him out, or whatever it is. He kicked you and I know you love him, but don't bail him out. There are consequences for his actions. This is a good lesson he's learning right now, that his violence won't be tolerated and will send him to jail.</p><p></p><p>I had a restraining order against my difficult child a few years ago. He was very violent, stole, beat up his brothers, broke things for fun...I could go on here, but when he graduated high school, and did nothing but continue this behavior, we had enough.</p><p></p><p>difficult child kids learn there lesson the hard way, they have to experience first hand what they DON'T want their life to be like. Hopefully your son will wake up, see that jail stinks and won't want to go back.</p><p></p><p>As for him kicking you, that has to be completely unacceptable. I know your "normal" is him acting like this,but no more. I know because that was my normal, too. He has to earn the things you give him, especially your respect and trust. Those are more difficult to come by.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 317262, member: 2668"] (((HUGS)) It is sad that he's in jail with no contact from his family. But remember, he did this to himself, it's his fault, sad as it is. Believe me, he'll contact you, he'll want you to do stuff, buy him stuff, bail him out, or whatever it is. He kicked you and I know you love him, but don't bail him out. There are consequences for his actions. This is a good lesson he's learning right now, that his violence won't be tolerated and will send him to jail. I had a restraining order against my difficult child a few years ago. He was very violent, stole, beat up his brothers, broke things for fun...I could go on here, but when he graduated high school, and did nothing but continue this behavior, we had enough. difficult child kids learn there lesson the hard way, they have to experience first hand what they DON'T want their life to be like. Hopefully your son will wake up, see that jail stinks and won't want to go back. As for him kicking you, that has to be completely unacceptable. I know your "normal" is him acting like this,but no more. I know because that was my normal, too. He has to earn the things you give him, especially your respect and trust. Those are more difficult to come by. [/QUOTE]
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