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<blockquote data-quote="Umberlee168" data-source="post: 616881" data-attributes="member: 17539"><p>I wouldn't stay with husband just for insurance, lol. It is one of the things that would suck most about divorce, though. It's at no cost and his flex plan, which is paid into by the company, typically takes care of all our co-pays and deductibles. It's basically free insurance for all seven of us, including his stepkids. When I look at dollars and cents of being on my own, that would be a huge loss.</p><p></p><p>husband desperately needs to develop some empathy, but there will be no changing him. He has never worked at a relationship in his life. He has two other failed marriages that he gave up on and an adopted son he lost rather than fight for (after bio mom was killed by a drunk driver). He is not a wonderful guy by any means. But what's more important to me is what else he's not: he's not a drinker, not a cheater, not a gambler, not an always-gone-with-friends guy, not a big spender, not a yeller or hitter or even argue-back-er. husband is dependable and predictable and lovable in his own way.</p><p></p><p>One of my goals for this week is to track down some of the "paper trail" from Punch's recent escapade, but this is gonna be hampered by my van dying so I'm homebound til my battery gets replaced. I really want to know what the police report and hospital notes say.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Umberlee168, post: 616881, member: 17539"] I wouldn't stay with husband just for insurance, lol. It is one of the things that would suck most about divorce, though. It's at no cost and his flex plan, which is paid into by the company, typically takes care of all our co-pays and deductibles. It's basically free insurance for all seven of us, including his stepkids. When I look at dollars and cents of being on my own, that would be a huge loss. husband desperately needs to develop some empathy, but there will be no changing him. He has never worked at a relationship in his life. He has two other failed marriages that he gave up on and an adopted son he lost rather than fight for (after bio mom was killed by a drunk driver). He is not a wonderful guy by any means. But what's more important to me is what else he's not: he's not a drinker, not a cheater, not a gambler, not an always-gone-with-friends guy, not a big spender, not a yeller or hitter or even argue-back-er. husband is dependable and predictable and lovable in his own way. One of my goals for this week is to track down some of the "paper trail" from Punch's recent escapade, but this is gonna be hampered by my van dying so I'm homebound til my battery gets replaced. I really want to know what the police report and hospital notes say. [/QUOTE]
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