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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 394790" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Janet - </p><p> </p><p>I think I'd leave the glasses go until after January - what you can't see? You can't catch and kill or see that it's dirty - hence it doesn't need cleaning. As far as Tony's phone? Well - he's a big boy - let him figure out what he's going to do about HIS phone. If you lost his phone then that's another story - but you've no doubt figured that out already so it's a non-issue. Most of the things you blew out your nose here already are non-issue. Why? Well, the things you CAN do nothing about - you can do nothing about and a. (#)(ing about them will only serve to upset who? YOU - do you think that bringing MORE attention to a grown woman that you asked to help you in a dire situation and she completely, and utterly once again tried to turn the situation around to ME ME ME? I guess I would ask 'Did you expect anything less?" She does this every time you ask anything mature, responsible and adult of her. The only glitch this time is that in a situation like this, being an ULTIMATE situation because there just doesn't seem to be anything more final or desperate to us as people as the death of a family member you would think that at the very least even dysfunctional people like her could "take it down a notch" just for a day or two and 'pitch in', and feel sorry for someone else besides HERSELF - and see outside her little world. Sadly - she can not. She's is what she is, and as long as you continue to allow HER to live in your home and rule your house? She will always be just that - a victim. So no sense in being upset or surprised by her actions - I'm surprised actually she didn't call and say the house was on fire. Really. I think you're lucky - remember we "ARE" related by marriage as it were....and I've been there done that. </p><p> </p><p>So - the bills are due. YUP - bast#($Ds are due every month and we never have any money - SHOW OF HANDS - how many of us here are robbing Patricia to pay Paulina? (counts - 1001, 1002 ) so you aren't alone - but your situation is YOUR situation and if your lights are shut off I may still be here in my home with candles so - while I can empathize it doesn't take away your stress for the moment. I can only say - I know what you are going through and you aren't alone. That's what friends do. As far as living with too many people in your house? Ahhhhh well - THAT problem I'm hoping to never have again - but we have all (or most of us, or some of us) have done it at times and again - I'm not going through it now - but have - so I empathize - and I think with no END in sight it leaves you feeling a little Grrrr. Why wouldn't it - there is no date, of hope of looking forward to Mandy moving out. No relief. So that is something that either you rectify or don't. If you don't then you deal. Eat and stuff - eat and stuff. OR - plan and push - out. I'm for pushing - I can't say where I'd like to (SHOW OF HANDS AGAIN _ WHERE WOULD WE PUT THIS OH SO GREATFUL CHILD?) - snort....peanut gallery remains silent. hahah. </p><p> </p><p>As far as your house? Dogs not being fed? That's horrible - yes. No excuse? Yes. Done deal? yup. Nothing you can do about it now except KNOW that if you have to ever leave again - you find someone else to feed the dogs or take them with. Mandy proved she is NOT a mature and responsible person and I would never trust her again to water my plants let alone my dogs. Was it complete BS? You bet. Would I call her on the accident? Probably, but at what purpose? She'll just lie again. Head on collision huh? Where is the police report she filed? That should suffice - I'd be making a report of my own - she's a nit whit. But like I said - the more attention you draw to her? The less this weekend becomes about YOU and YOUR FATHER - and that's what this was about and should be rememberd for - so keep that in mind when you are blowing your stack. Get it out here - GOOD......then </p><p> </p><p>Clean up the poop.....it's poop - </p><p>Clean up the house.....it needs cleaned anyway - or not - whatever - right? </p><p>Get new glasses - I know - BS - but you have to be able to see - so svck it up...go. </p><p>Find T's phone - or get a Track phone for a week or so until you get $ </p><p>Pay a little on each bill - and make some calls tomorrow - do the best you can </p><p>Tell T you think M and C should move out and give them XX months to get out and set a day - (freedom = lower stress)</p><p> </p><p>Get T to put in a dog door for the Havaneese.....NOW...TODAY. It's easy </p><p> </p><p>Then let the rest go - and grieve for your Daddy - and when they don't understand you? Come here - we do. </p><p> </p><p>Like I said - the more you make this about what you didn't do or what SHE didn't do? The less this is about you and your Dad - and that's really what this is about - </p><p> </p><p>A daughter and her Dad saying goodbye - and it was a wonderful eulogy - the trip? No biggie - people pack like **** all the time. Even if you plan like a pro - there are things forgotten - you did great considering ......so back off my girlfriend J - she done good. K? K! </p><p> </p><p>Now - take it easy - and rest today - then do the best you can tomorrow like you always do - </p><p> </p><p>Hugs & Love </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 394790, member: 4964"] Janet - I think I'd leave the glasses go until after January - what you can't see? You can't catch and kill or see that it's dirty - hence it doesn't need cleaning. As far as Tony's phone? Well - he's a big boy - let him figure out what he's going to do about HIS phone. If you lost his phone then that's another story - but you've no doubt figured that out already so it's a non-issue. Most of the things you blew out your nose here already are non-issue. Why? Well, the things you CAN do nothing about - you can do nothing about and a. (#)(ing about them will only serve to upset who? YOU - do you think that bringing MORE attention to a grown woman that you asked to help you in a dire situation and she completely, and utterly once again tried to turn the situation around to ME ME ME? I guess I would ask 'Did you expect anything less?" She does this every time you ask anything mature, responsible and adult of her. The only glitch this time is that in a situation like this, being an ULTIMATE situation because there just doesn't seem to be anything more final or desperate to us as people as the death of a family member you would think that at the very least even dysfunctional people like her could "take it down a notch" just for a day or two and 'pitch in', and feel sorry for someone else besides HERSELF - and see outside her little world. Sadly - she can not. She's is what she is, and as long as you continue to allow HER to live in your home and rule your house? She will always be just that - a victim. So no sense in being upset or surprised by her actions - I'm surprised actually she didn't call and say the house was on fire. Really. I think you're lucky - remember we "ARE" related by marriage as it were....and I've been there done that. So - the bills are due. YUP - bast#($Ds are due every month and we never have any money - SHOW OF HANDS - how many of us here are robbing Patricia to pay Paulina? (counts - 1001, 1002 ) so you aren't alone - but your situation is YOUR situation and if your lights are shut off I may still be here in my home with candles so - while I can empathize it doesn't take away your stress for the moment. I can only say - I know what you are going through and you aren't alone. That's what friends do. As far as living with too many people in your house? Ahhhhh well - THAT problem I'm hoping to never have again - but we have all (or most of us, or some of us) have done it at times and again - I'm not going through it now - but have - so I empathize - and I think with no END in sight it leaves you feeling a little Grrrr. Why wouldn't it - there is no date, of hope of looking forward to Mandy moving out. No relief. So that is something that either you rectify or don't. If you don't then you deal. Eat and stuff - eat and stuff. OR - plan and push - out. I'm for pushing - I can't say where I'd like to (SHOW OF HANDS AGAIN _ WHERE WOULD WE PUT THIS OH SO GREATFUL CHILD?) - snort....peanut gallery remains silent. hahah. As far as your house? Dogs not being fed? That's horrible - yes. No excuse? Yes. Done deal? yup. Nothing you can do about it now except KNOW that if you have to ever leave again - you find someone else to feed the dogs or take them with. Mandy proved she is NOT a mature and responsible person and I would never trust her again to water my plants let alone my dogs. Was it complete BS? You bet. Would I call her on the accident? Probably, but at what purpose? She'll just lie again. Head on collision huh? Where is the police report she filed? That should suffice - I'd be making a report of my own - she's a nit whit. But like I said - the more attention you draw to her? The less this weekend becomes about YOU and YOUR FATHER - and that's what this was about and should be rememberd for - so keep that in mind when you are blowing your stack. Get it out here - GOOD......then Clean up the poop.....it's poop - Clean up the house.....it needs cleaned anyway - or not - whatever - right? Get new glasses - I know - BS - but you have to be able to see - so svck it up...go. Find T's phone - or get a Track phone for a week or so until you get $ Pay a little on each bill - and make some calls tomorrow - do the best you can Tell T you think M and C should move out and give them XX months to get out and set a day - (freedom = lower stress) Get T to put in a dog door for the Havaneese.....NOW...TODAY. It's easy Then let the rest go - and grieve for your Daddy - and when they don't understand you? Come here - we do. Like I said - the more you make this about what you didn't do or what SHE didn't do? The less this is about you and your Dad - and that's really what this is about - A daughter and her Dad saying goodbye - and it was a wonderful eulogy - the trip? No biggie - people pack like **** all the time. Even if you plan like a pro - there are things forgotten - you did great considering ......so back off my girlfriend J - she done good. K? K! Now - take it easy - and rest today - then do the best you can tomorrow like you always do - Hugs & Love Star [/QUOTE]
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