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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 137601" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Oh, he called her in alone and asked her if she wanted to go swimming. I guess I typed wrong, cause he initally said he'd take "her", not "them". About 10 minutes after she starts getting ready did he ask wee difficult child. And he wouldn't have left wee difficult child, I don't think, but still.</p><p> </p><p>I want him to do these things, I want him to be a part, I want him to help out and this is, but knowing he wouldn't have done it if I had asked or wee difficult child had asked just burns me. I'm so sick of being second rate. </p><p> </p><p>And you're right, bunny, I know its hard when you don't have one child all the time. I try to allow extra patience for that and for easy child 2, as well, because she is starved for attention and acts like an 11 year old going on a 7 year old, but again, when you're the one who's second rate picking up the pieces from all these people who just walk on you, well....I'm tired of it.</p><p> </p><p>She was here 2 weeks ago and got out not one,but TWO tents complete with pillows and blankets and dolls and toys in each. After she went back to her mom's, husband picked up her stuff, then got wee difficult child OUT OF BED to pick up what he had left out, which was his Lego's. That was the day he drove the team while easy child 1 and i sealed the camper.</p><p> </p><p>PS - the camping trip we just got back from...we met 5 other friends with kids easy child's and difficult child's age and took the kids to a HUGE st patrick's day parade. Granted time was shared with the other peoples' kids, but I know I spent a lot of time with easy child and difficult child this weekend...the whole dang weekend was basically for THEM, anyway. (yes, we enjoy it, too, but we wouldn't be going to a giant st patty parade without kids)</p><p> </p><p>And I feel bad for being angry, cause I did get what I wanted...he took the kids and I'm here alone and can get A LOT done while they're gone... but on the same note, I didn't get anything. He wouldn't have taken them if anyone but easy child had asked...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 137601, member: 1848"] Oh, he called her in alone and asked her if she wanted to go swimming. I guess I typed wrong, cause he initally said he'd take "her", not "them". About 10 minutes after she starts getting ready did he ask wee difficult child. And he wouldn't have left wee difficult child, I don't think, but still. I want him to do these things, I want him to be a part, I want him to help out and this is, but knowing he wouldn't have done it if I had asked or wee difficult child had asked just burns me. I'm so sick of being second rate. And you're right, bunny, I know its hard when you don't have one child all the time. I try to allow extra patience for that and for easy child 2, as well, because she is starved for attention and acts like an 11 year old going on a 7 year old, but again, when you're the one who's second rate picking up the pieces from all these people who just walk on you, well....I'm tired of it. She was here 2 weeks ago and got out not one,but TWO tents complete with pillows and blankets and dolls and toys in each. After she went back to her mom's, husband picked up her stuff, then got wee difficult child OUT OF BED to pick up what he had left out, which was his Lego's. That was the day he drove the team while easy child 1 and i sealed the camper. PS - the camping trip we just got back from...we met 5 other friends with kids easy child's and difficult child's age and took the kids to a HUGE st patrick's day parade. Granted time was shared with the other peoples' kids, but I know I spent a lot of time with easy child and difficult child this weekend...the whole dang weekend was basically for THEM, anyway. (yes, we enjoy it, too, but we wouldn't be going to a giant st patty parade without kids) And I feel bad for being angry, cause I did get what I wanted...he took the kids and I'm here alone and can get A LOT done while they're gone... but on the same note, I didn't get anything. He wouldn't have taken them if anyone but easy child had asked... [/QUOTE]
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