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Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?
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<blockquote data-quote="marthacat" data-source="post: 709389" data-attributes="member: 21564"><p>This breaks my heart as I see a lot of what my daughter went through a few years ago with a terrible boyfriend. She went from a fun loving, confident girl with lots of girlfriends to a troubled, drug user with no friends. Still to this day does not have many friends. I am not sure how old your daughters boyfriend is, he sounds older, but still lives with his parents apparently. Have you thought about talking to them? I spent a lot of time thinking that my daughters BFs parents had to be as bad as he was (and his dad was actually worse) but his mom turned out to be just as concerned about the whole situation as I was. I did let her boyfriend come to our house because I wanted to keep an eye on them. We put up with a lot and our family went through hell during this time. He was abusive to her, she was abusive to us. In hindsight though I think I would have done what you are doing. She seems to be missing you and realizing that she had it good at home. Maybe being away and knowing that you are sticking to what you decided will help her make the decision that she does not want to be with him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="marthacat, post: 709389, member: 21564"] This breaks my heart as I see a lot of what my daughter went through a few years ago with a terrible boyfriend. She went from a fun loving, confident girl with lots of girlfriends to a troubled, drug user with no friends. Still to this day does not have many friends. I am not sure how old your daughters boyfriend is, he sounds older, but still lives with his parents apparently. Have you thought about talking to them? I spent a lot of time thinking that my daughters BFs parents had to be as bad as he was (and his dad was actually worse) but his mom turned out to be just as concerned about the whole situation as I was. I did let her boyfriend come to our house because I wanted to keep an eye on them. We put up with a lot and our family went through hell during this time. He was abusive to her, she was abusive to us. In hindsight though I think I would have done what you are doing. She seems to be missing you and realizing that she had it good at home. Maybe being away and knowing that you are sticking to what you decided will help her make the decision that she does not want to be with him. [/QUOTE]
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