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Now this makes alot of sense !!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 684443" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Dear friend, I don't believe for minute that you are a whimpy person. It takes enormous strength to deal with all that you have had to deal with. You are emotionally drained because of it and this by no means makes you whimpy, just the opposite, it makes strong.</p><p>You are making progress, you really are. Changing ourselves takes time. Whey you say you allow people to run over you, well, here's how I see it. You are a people pleaser, a peace maker, one who doesn't like confrontation. I'm the same way. It has taken time but I've developed better skills for dealing with people. I'm still a people pleaser, it's my nature, but I have learned to set boundaries. Again, this didn't happen overnight.</p><p></p><p>Think about how you want to be then take baby steps to get there. If we start with small changes it's much easier and we have better success.</p><p></p><p>Go out tonight with the girls. Live in the moment, enjoy yourself. It's ok for you to have a good life, you deserve it.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there ST, you will get through this and you are much stronger than you realize.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you...................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 684443, member: 18516"] Dear friend, I don't believe for minute that you are a whimpy person. It takes enormous strength to deal with all that you have had to deal with. You are emotionally drained because of it and this by no means makes you whimpy, just the opposite, it makes strong. You are making progress, you really are. Changing ourselves takes time. Whey you say you allow people to run over you, well, here's how I see it. You are a people pleaser, a peace maker, one who doesn't like confrontation. I'm the same way. It has taken time but I've developed better skills for dealing with people. I'm still a people pleaser, it's my nature, but I have learned to set boundaries. Again, this didn't happen overnight. Think about how you want to be then take baby steps to get there. If we start with small changes it's much easier and we have better success. Go out tonight with the girls. Live in the moment, enjoy yourself. It's ok for you to have a good life, you deserve it. Hang in there ST, you will get through this and you are much stronger than you realize. ((HUGS)) to you................... [/QUOTE]
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