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<blockquote data-quote="TAnne" data-source="post: 713848" data-attributes="member: 20694"><p>Thank you so much for the advice! After a lengthy discussion and a lot of blame being placed on my shoulders for his troubles (which I refuse to accept), he's going to be moving out tomorrow and staying with a friend. I got a surprising FB message from his ex-girlfriend this morning that said: </p><p></p><p>Hey "Difficult Child mom",</p><p></p><p>I've been seeing all of the stuff Difficult Child's been posting on facebook and talking to Difficult Child's sister and I just wanted to tell you that you are one of the most patient and kind parents I've ever known. </p><p></p><p>The fact that your son does half of the stuff that he does to you and then turns around and lies to not only you, but a dozens of others about you, is absolutely horrific and astounding. </p><p></p><p>You are more patient than I, or most people, could hope to be when it comes to this stuff. It's unfair that you and your family have to put up with that. I would've done anything to have a mother like you growing up. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Just wanted to let you know that. </p><p></p><p>Keep being great!!!</p><p></p><p>I can't see what's being posted about me on his Facebook page, and at this point I probably don't want to because I don't know if I could handle it emotionally right now. This entire family has walked on eggshells around this kid since he was 13 years old and we only get crapped on in return. At this point I'm only going to feel relief once he's removed his belongings from our home. It's heartbreaking to deal with adult children like this when you've only tried your best to give them the world, but I know I can't fix him. He has to fix himself, and he can't do it under my roof.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TAnne, post: 713848, member: 20694"] Thank you so much for the advice! After a lengthy discussion and a lot of blame being placed on my shoulders for his troubles (which I refuse to accept), he's going to be moving out tomorrow and staying with a friend. I got a surprising FB message from his ex-girlfriend this morning that said: Hey "Difficult Child mom", I've been seeing all of the stuff Difficult Child's been posting on facebook and talking to Difficult Child's sister and I just wanted to tell you that you are one of the most patient and kind parents I've ever known. The fact that your son does half of the stuff that he does to you and then turns around and lies to not only you, but a dozens of others about you, is absolutely horrific and astounding. You are more patient than I, or most people, could hope to be when it comes to this stuff. It's unfair that you and your family have to put up with that. I would've done anything to have a mother like you growing up. Just wanted to let you know that. Keep being great!!! I can't see what's being posted about me on his Facebook page, and at this point I probably don't want to because I don't know if I could handle it emotionally right now. This entire family has walked on eggshells around this kid since he was 13 years old and we only get crapped on in return. At this point I'm only going to feel relief once he's removed his belongings from our home. It's heartbreaking to deal with adult children like this when you've only tried your best to give them the world, but I know I can't fix him. He has to fix himself, and he can't do it under my roof. [/QUOTE]
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