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numb to feeling my dad's death?
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 423493" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Steely, as you now, my dad died too. I got through the wake with few tears, got thru the funeral with no tears and held up well as I greeted everyone and thanked them for coming. That was in early December. I made it all the way through Christmas and past my birthday in January before I really started to feel things. By march when his birthday...and my mom's birthday...came around, I was a basket case. Basically I spent the first week of March in bed. My dad was born 3/3 and my mom was born 3/4 and they are both dead now and I am now an orphan. That time really crying and mourning both of them did seem to help me some. </p><p></p><p>I am still horribly upset that my dad died, dont get me wrong but I can think about...ok...no I cant...was going to say I can think about him without tearing up but I am tearing up...lol. Mothers day is around the corner and he always always always sent me the most beautiful cards telling me what a wonderful daughter and mother I was and how proud of me he was. I am so sad that I will never get another card so I have made plans for this Mothers day so I wont sit there and dwell on that. Im hoping it will get easier with time. Sigh. Just typing this out has made me cry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 423493, member: 1514"] Steely, as you now, my dad died too. I got through the wake with few tears, got thru the funeral with no tears and held up well as I greeted everyone and thanked them for coming. That was in early December. I made it all the way through Christmas and past my birthday in January before I really started to feel things. By march when his birthday...and my mom's birthday...came around, I was a basket case. Basically I spent the first week of March in bed. My dad was born 3/3 and my mom was born 3/4 and they are both dead now and I am now an orphan. That time really crying and mourning both of them did seem to help me some. I am still horribly upset that my dad died, dont get me wrong but I can think about...ok...no I cant...was going to say I can think about him without tearing up but I am tearing up...lol. Mothers day is around the corner and he always always always sent me the most beautiful cards telling me what a wonderful daughter and mother I was and how proud of me he was. I am so sad that I will never get another card so I have made plans for this Mothers day so I wont sit there and dwell on that. Im hoping it will get easier with time. Sigh. Just typing this out has made me cry. [/QUOTE]
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