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Oh Joy! Love getting woken by cops at 5 in the morning!
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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 453135" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Yes, she's gone. No, no funeral is planned. She had a pre-paid plan and did not plan on any services. Who knows if husband or any of his sibs are going to change any of that - I doubt it. </p><p></p><p>To his credit, he did call back to tell the girls personally. I had already told them. DD1 had virtually no reaction, and DD2 got a little sad, but not much. Shockingly, son seemed to be the most affected. At least the girls got a call from their Daddy (first call since January).</p><p></p><p>So now I'm debating if I should contact the assisted living facility to find out if I'm still the "responsible party" or should I wait for them to contact me? I really want my TV and chest of drawers that I had given her. I'd be really ****** if they just got rid of them and I was still the one on the lease. It really is not a big deal, but it's the kind of insidious stuff that eats me up. Kinda like the self cleaning oven she decided to scrub with a brillo pad, or the knives that were perfectly fine but she insisted on sharpening them and screwed them up. Or the drain stopper she decided to throw out because it didn't "match" That one really drives me bonkers since the sink drains are an odd configuration and it took months of hunting for a stopper that worked properly. A year later and I still don't have a suitable replacement. UHG! Yes, it is all stupid petty stuff, but the kind that gets under my skin (I do have other things that do this to me with other ppl, so It's not just a mother in law issue, it's MY issue) and I have to work very hard to redirect myself when I get on a "roll".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 453135, member: 11965"] Yes, she's gone. No, no funeral is planned. She had a pre-paid plan and did not plan on any services. Who knows if husband or any of his sibs are going to change any of that - I doubt it. To his credit, he did call back to tell the girls personally. I had already told them. DD1 had virtually no reaction, and DD2 got a little sad, but not much. Shockingly, son seemed to be the most affected. At least the girls got a call from their Daddy (first call since January). So now I'm debating if I should contact the assisted living facility to find out if I'm still the "responsible party" or should I wait for them to contact me? I really want my TV and chest of drawers that I had given her. I'd be really ****** if they just got rid of them and I was still the one on the lease. It really is not a big deal, but it's the kind of insidious stuff that eats me up. Kinda like the self cleaning oven she decided to scrub with a brillo pad, or the knives that were perfectly fine but she insisted on sharpening them and screwed them up. Or the drain stopper she decided to throw out because it didn't "match" That one really drives me bonkers since the sink drains are an odd configuration and it took months of hunting for a stopper that worked properly. A year later and I still don't have a suitable replacement. UHG! Yes, it is all stupid petty stuff, but the kind that gets under my skin (I do have other things that do this to me with other ppl, so It's not just a mother in law issue, it's MY issue) and I have to work very hard to redirect myself when I get on a "roll". [/QUOTE]
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