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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 500532" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>just document, journal, record the things they say etc. this will show them that there is a history of these kinds of false reports.... That is what I have done and it is in school records when he does it there and it is in our county plan and also in the home health company plan... this kid has a history of false reports of abuse. </p><p></p><p>If they ever call, happily invite them to come asap. I thought, oh Q is gonna play this up and it will happen again nd again. So, I acted like I was glad they were coming and told him to tell them as many stories as he wanted. He has not yelled out our windows and false abuse stuff for years. He does say "dont hit me" when he is upset... but that is echolalia.... I used to say to him , dont hit me... or I said ... because you hit me... he said both those phrases just like I said them, the exact words and says them over and over. but I was the only one with scratches and bruises so??? what are they gonna say. </p><p></p><p>Yes it is nerve wracking but I had to finally let it go, the least of my worries. I live in a town home complex and I worried so much about neighbors calling when he has a melt down so I just tell them all what is going on. Not in front of him but very open. I have found such support and love from them. They have come out and asked how he is doing, the kids have tried to help him calm , etc. Much better than when I didn't tell anyone. Helped that he eventually dropped down and had a seizure right there in front of parents and kids so they really got it then.</p><p></p><p>I am sure that TeDo and several others here with twins can really really relate to your dilemas... so hard to find what both will like and then they must really rev each other up at times. </p><p></p><p>take care, thinking of you... Buddy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 500532, member: 12886"] just document, journal, record the things they say etc. this will show them that there is a history of these kinds of false reports.... That is what I have done and it is in school records when he does it there and it is in our county plan and also in the home health company plan... this kid has a history of false reports of abuse. If they ever call, happily invite them to come asap. I thought, oh Q is gonna play this up and it will happen again nd again. So, I acted like I was glad they were coming and told him to tell them as many stories as he wanted. He has not yelled out our windows and false abuse stuff for years. He does say "dont hit me" when he is upset... but that is echolalia.... I used to say to him , dont hit me... or I said ... because you hit me... he said both those phrases just like I said them, the exact words and says them over and over. but I was the only one with scratches and bruises so??? what are they gonna say. Yes it is nerve wracking but I had to finally let it go, the least of my worries. I live in a town home complex and I worried so much about neighbors calling when he has a melt down so I just tell them all what is going on. Not in front of him but very open. I have found such support and love from them. They have come out and asked how he is doing, the kids have tried to help him calm , etc. Much better than when I didn't tell anyone. Helped that he eventually dropped down and had a seizure right there in front of parents and kids so they really got it then. I am sure that TeDo and several others here with twins can really really relate to your dilemas... so hard to find what both will like and then they must really rev each other up at times. take care, thinking of you... Buddy [/QUOTE]
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