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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 284854" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>You need to be firm and set boundaries. She's playing a different role, and you need to as well. Tell her 15 is too many and you'll accept 3 calls (or whatever number is good), and that's all. No need to explain that you have things to do, less is more. Be firm, she isn't getting subtle messages. Answer the first 3 calls, tell her ok that's 1, etc....after that, you don't answer. She can call you tomorrow. I know you're not a mean person, and she is upset, but she has to learn on her own to work through it. Maybe her doctor can give her some xanax.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 284854, member: 2668"] You need to be firm and set boundaries. She's playing a different role, and you need to as well. Tell her 15 is too many and you'll accept 3 calls (or whatever number is good), and that's all. No need to explain that you have things to do, less is more. Be firm, she isn't getting subtle messages. Answer the first 3 calls, tell her ok that's 1, etc....after that, you don't answer. She can call you tomorrow. I know you're not a mean person, and she is upset, but she has to learn on her own to work through it. Maybe her doctor can give her some xanax. [/QUOTE]
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