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<blockquote data-quote="ScentofCedar" data-source="post: 159963" data-attributes="member: 3353"><p>***********</p><p></p><p>Exactly right.</p><p></p><p>Write as Witz and Dammit suggested. </p><p></p><p>Come up with your backup plan now Stands, in case difficult child is released and tries to come home whether you have made it clear to the court system that you do not want him there or not. </p><p></p><p>Where will you send difficult child if and when he shows up at your door?</p><p></p><p>What are your parameters of behavior for him before you will call the police and have him removed from your home? How will you know when it is time to call 911,if that becomes necessary?</p><p></p><p>What are the words you are going to use to say "NO".</p><p></p><p>Try not to concentrate your energies on the trial or your son or his lifestyle. Use this time, and these energies, to refine your own responses to whatever difficult child comes up with.</p><p></p><p>What will you and husband say if and when difficult child shows up on the porch and expects you to let him come in?</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ScentofCedar, post: 159963, member: 3353"] *********** Exactly right. Write as Witz and Dammit suggested. Come up with your backup plan now Stands, in case difficult child is released and tries to come home whether you have made it clear to the court system that you do not want him there or not. Where will you send difficult child if and when he shows up at your door? What are your parameters of behavior for him before you will call the police and have him removed from your home? How will you know when it is time to call 911,if that becomes necessary? What are the words you are going to use to say "NO". Try not to concentrate your energies on the trial or your son or his lifestyle. Use this time, and these energies, to refine your own responses to whatever difficult child comes up with. What will you and husband say if and when difficult child shows up on the porch and expects you to let him come in? Barbara [/QUOTE]
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