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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 192982" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>I am so sorry about the whole situation and understand your feelings. I think Byron Katie </p><p><a href="http://www.thework.com/index.asp" target="_blank">http://www.thework.com/index.asp</a> can be a help to accept the new reality. I appreciate he is your one and only son , I don't believe in cutting ties , I believe in providing ' relationship and emotional support , nothing more . </p><p>I am praying that he will havea light bulb moment and see how the system can empower him and not how he can work the system and get your help in doing that. What is important to God is the efforts we make in raising kids , getting help and learning , the result is not in our hands . In fact there is a Jewish source that says the way children turn out , depends amongst other things to good fortune.</p><p>I hear you are tired of hanging in , maybe it is time to focus on you and your important relationships. being selfish and nurturing ourselves is for our kids as well , you need to be strong when he comes out .</p><p>Sending prayers and positive thoughts in your direction</p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 192982, member: 10"] Hi, I am so sorry about the whole situation and understand your feelings. I think Byron Katie [url]http://www.thework.com/index.asp[/url] can be a help to accept the new reality. I appreciate he is your one and only son , I don't believe in cutting ties , I believe in providing ' relationship and emotional support , nothing more . I am praying that he will havea light bulb moment and see how the system can empower him and not how he can work the system and get your help in doing that. What is important to God is the efforts we make in raising kids , getting help and learning , the result is not in our hands . In fact there is a Jewish source that says the way children turn out , depends amongst other things to good fortune. I hear you are tired of hanging in , maybe it is time to focus on you and your important relationships. being selfish and nurturing ourselves is for our kids as well , you need to be strong when he comes out . Sending prayers and positive thoughts in your direction Allan [/QUOTE]
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