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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 420339" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>GOOD FOR YOU!!!!</p><p> </p><p>while school is important, this koi has been going on with-o consequence for either cgfg or her mom for too long. You made plans, she knew them and inserted cgfg and there is no way she wasn't told that cgfg had a concert. You have gone out of your way for, and personally PAID for (out of YOUR income and not husband's I am quite sure) tutoring for cgfg that took place on YOUR time with her, fought with cgfg over homework and school work in the past.</p><p> </p><p>You have also been made well aware that no one else in cgfg's life will make her do homework or schoolwork and it has been mostly your fight when neither of her parents really give a good dang about it, esp if it interferes with their lives. </p><p> </p><p>THEN you were told to stay out of school. AFTER you were the ONLY one who even gave that dang about it - as not even cgfg seems to care. </p><p> </p><p>So WHY would they think you would change your plans for a school function even if it is for a grade. I guarantee you that mom thought you would interrupt your weekend to take her home, clean her up, find and clean her choir uniform, take her there, see the concert, applaud and praise her, take her out for a treat for participating, and take her to get changed back into camping gear, and then go back to camp or whatever.</p><p></p><p>This is a big load of BS being heaped upon you. Ignore the choir concert, stick to your plans and let cgfg and her mother deal with the school issues because they don't care about them anyway. Why should you, the stepmom, care more about school for cgfg than cgfg, her mom or her dad? If there are any repercussions, well, she has a dad and a mom who can deal with them. I do predict that mom will get upset because you didnt' take care of this. Don't let her get away with it. Either ignore her or go get in her face. </p><p> </p><p>GO SHARI!!!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 420339, member: 1233"] GOOD FOR YOU!!!! while school is important, this koi has been going on with-o consequence for either cgfg or her mom for too long. You made plans, she knew them and inserted cgfg and there is no way she wasn't told that cgfg had a concert. You have gone out of your way for, and personally PAID for (out of YOUR income and not husband's I am quite sure) tutoring for cgfg that took place on YOUR time with her, fought with cgfg over homework and school work in the past. You have also been made well aware that no one else in cgfg's life will make her do homework or schoolwork and it has been mostly your fight when neither of her parents really give a good dang about it, esp if it interferes with their lives. THEN you were told to stay out of school. AFTER you were the ONLY one who even gave that dang about it - as not even cgfg seems to care. So WHY would they think you would change your plans for a school function even if it is for a grade. I guarantee you that mom thought you would interrupt your weekend to take her home, clean her up, find and clean her choir uniform, take her there, see the concert, applaud and praise her, take her out for a treat for participating, and take her to get changed back into camping gear, and then go back to camp or whatever. This is a big load of BS being heaped upon you. Ignore the choir concert, stick to your plans and let cgfg and her mother deal with the school issues because they don't care about them anyway. Why should you, the stepmom, care more about school for cgfg than cgfg, her mom or her dad? If there are any repercussions, well, she has a dad and a mom who can deal with them. I do predict that mom will get upset because you didnt' take care of this. Don't let her get away with it. Either ignore her or go get in her face. GO SHARI!!!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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