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Oh yay....A hole has been released....
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 567977" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>PG, I'm so glad you got to see your difficult child and that she looked better and didn't ask for anything. Loving someone so much AND exerting boundaries on their behavior is quite the balancing act for us weary souls, but you're doing a good job. I don't think cutting her out of your life is an alternative, finding the balance between the love and the distance is the tightrope we all walk. Not knowing what she wants really is fitting to someone 19 years old.........she now knows the difference between sobriety and all the other alternatives thanks to you and your commitment to her. Being on the sidelines loving her while not accepting her poor choices will hopefully give her the room to make better choices. To find a person you can relate to at your work is a such a wonderful gift for you, I'm happy you've found that support for yourself. (((HUGS))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 567977, member: 13542"] PG, I'm so glad you got to see your difficult child and that she looked better and didn't ask for anything. Loving someone so much AND exerting boundaries on their behavior is quite the balancing act for us weary souls, but you're doing a good job. I don't think cutting her out of your life is an alternative, finding the balance between the love and the distance is the tightrope we all walk. Not knowing what she wants really is fitting to someone 19 years old.........she now knows the difference between sobriety and all the other alternatives thanks to you and your commitment to her. Being on the sidelines loving her while not accepting her poor choices will hopefully give her the room to make better choices. To find a person you can relate to at your work is a such a wonderful gift for you, I'm happy you've found that support for yourself. (((HUGS)))) [/QUOTE]
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