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Oh yeah...difficult child tried to steal from Kmart
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 324320" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I am as close to positive as I can be <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/sick.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sick:" title="sick :sick:" data-shortname=":sick:" /> that GFGmom will not take his next check which I assume should be there the lst of January since he got his first (back payment) checks the lst of Decembr. That will be $600 and then by February lst he will have $1200 which will be enough for him to get into a place of his own. That's the backup plan. He will be eligible for food stamps once he has a place of his own so it will be doable although not as easy as it should be.</p><p></p><p>Of course a BIG problem is that he will be angry that I am "hurting Mom" and "want to control his life". I have no idea if he can transition even with the supports in place. She has been drumming into his head for well over a year that he is "an adult" and "doesn't need Mama telling him what to do". His love and devotion to his Mother is a bit like Stockholm Syndrome. She is an itch but because of the many rejections he has suffered at her hands he is very determined to be #1 with her. He doesn't understand that SHE is #1, any boyfriend is #2 and the place of number #3 is determined by what she gets out of him. It is totally sad. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 324320, member: 35"] I am as close to positive as I can be :sick: that GFGmom will not take his next check which I assume should be there the lst of January since he got his first (back payment) checks the lst of Decembr. That will be $600 and then by February lst he will have $1200 which will be enough for him to get into a place of his own. That's the backup plan. He will be eligible for food stamps once he has a place of his own so it will be doable although not as easy as it should be. Of course a BIG problem is that he will be angry that I am "hurting Mom" and "want to control his life". I have no idea if he can transition even with the supports in place. She has been drumming into his head for well over a year that he is "an adult" and "doesn't need Mama telling him what to do". His love and devotion to his Mother is a bit like Stockholm Syndrome. She is an itch but because of the many rejections he has suffered at her hands he is very determined to be #1 with her. He doesn't understand that SHE is #1, any boyfriend is #2 and the place of number #3 is determined by what she gets out of him. It is totally sad. DDD [/QUOTE]
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