Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Ok, here's the doubt....
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 287773" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>klmno</p><p> </p><p>Are you sure you're ready to attempt a relationship? I'm not talking about with this guy, I'm talking about with anyone. I'm wondering if you might be jumping the gun a bit.</p><p> </p><p>This man has no way to prove to you that he is not married. This isn't just because you met him online......anyone you met off the street would have the same problem.</p><p> </p><p>Most men who are cheating keep their lies simple. (unless they're idiots....my husband is an idiot, I'll leave it at that) Because it's too easy to get caught in a complicated lie. Too hard to keep your story straight.</p><p> </p><p>This guy has provided you with some rather involved information. If he wanted to lie......odds are the child that would be keeping home at home some nights would be his own in order to keep the lie simple. Plus a man caring for his own child is much more believable by women than a man caring for a grandchild. Plus, usually cheaters like to appear younger than they are.</p><p> </p><p>How about you forget about a "relationship" with this guy? Why not set out to develop a friendship instead? That would give you both plenty of time to get to know each other before considering anything romantic, and less chance of either of you being devistated.</p><p> </p><p>Odds are if this is your first venture back into the dating scene......this guy is not going to be the one you spend the rest of your life with. But that doesn't mean that it can't be a pleasant friendship/experience/time for you both.</p><p> </p><p>I may be waaaaay off base. But in your posts it sounds as if you're looking for a husband instead of a companion. And that's sort of backward. You've only known him a week and are terrified he's going to break your heart. You're not even romantically involved yet.</p><p> </p><p>Maybe the less stressful way for you to approach this is to let yourself be a friend first. If a spark develops from that, then you'll be better equipted to decide if you want a romantic involvment.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 287773, member: 84"] klmno Are you sure you're ready to attempt a relationship? I'm not talking about with this guy, I'm talking about with anyone. I'm wondering if you might be jumping the gun a bit. This man has no way to prove to you that he is not married. This isn't just because you met him online......anyone you met off the street would have the same problem. Most men who are cheating keep their lies simple. (unless they're idiots....my husband is an idiot, I'll leave it at that) Because it's too easy to get caught in a complicated lie. Too hard to keep your story straight. This guy has provided you with some rather involved information. If he wanted to lie......odds are the child that would be keeping home at home some nights would be his own in order to keep the lie simple. Plus a man caring for his own child is much more believable by women than a man caring for a grandchild. Plus, usually cheaters like to appear younger than they are. How about you forget about a "relationship" with this guy? Why not set out to develop a friendship instead? That would give you both plenty of time to get to know each other before considering anything romantic, and less chance of either of you being devistated. Odds are if this is your first venture back into the dating scene......this guy is not going to be the one you spend the rest of your life with. But that doesn't mean that it can't be a pleasant friendship/experience/time for you both. I may be waaaaay off base. But in your posts it sounds as if you're looking for a husband instead of a companion. And that's sort of backward. You've only known him a week and are terrified he's going to break your heart. You're not even romantically involved yet. Maybe the less stressful way for you to approach this is to let yourself be a friend first. If a spark develops from that, then you'll be better equipted to decide if you want a romantic involvment. Hugs [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Ok, here's the doubt....
Top