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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 287896" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Lisa's right. I have a really good male friend. I've known him longer than husband. In fact he and husband get along really well. Years ago when I first met him it was waaaaaayyyy more than friendship. But we both got our heads back on straight and it's the only time I've ever been able to be "just friends" with an ex. Except he's not an ex. Well, I won't go into that.</p><p> </p><p>The point I am trying to make is - he and I talk about <em>everything. </em>And I do mean that. I can rant about husband and he'll give me a guy's perspective, or he can complain about something his wife is doing and I can help there. We don't talk that often - every few months, we'll text for a few days then drop the conversation for a while.</p><p> </p><p>So I agree. Get to know him as friends. If there is more there, it will develop naturally - and then you will always have a rock-solid base of friendship (which let me tell you, helps with me and husband - a lot!) - and if nothing develops, well then - you have another friend!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 287896, member: 6705"] Lisa's right. I have a really good male friend. I've known him longer than husband. In fact he and husband get along really well. Years ago when I first met him it was waaaaaayyyy more than friendship. But we both got our heads back on straight and it's the only time I've ever been able to be "just friends" with an ex. Except he's not an ex. Well, I won't go into that. The point I am trying to make is - he and I talk about [I]everything. [/I]And I do mean that. I can rant about husband and he'll give me a guy's perspective, or he can complain about something his wife is doing and I can help there. We don't talk that often - every few months, we'll text for a few days then drop the conversation for a while. So I agree. Get to know him as friends. If there is more there, it will develop naturally - and then you will always have a rock-solid base of friendship (which let me tell you, helps with me and husband - a lot!) - and if nothing develops, well then - you have another friend! [/QUOTE]
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