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OK this is just kind of bugging me.
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<blockquote data-quote="Zardo" data-source="post: 592172" data-attributes="member: 12490"><p>I am very careful about who I talk to - mostly only those in recovery themselves or who have experienced this with a member of their direct family. Before I was so careful, I too would hear "advice" that was WAY too simplistic or something I had tried months back and if it was that easy to fix - it would have been fixed. That type of advice is frustrating to hear and often given in a judgemental way. After our recent crisis many people asked me 100 times if I wanted to talk or what they could do - this time I chose not to talk to almost any of them - it just too painful and they don't understand and certainly would not understand how it happened AGAIN. Most people assume that if a difficult child has gotten in trouble once, they would of course change their ways because WHO wild want to put themselves in that posits again. Unfortunately - it doesn't work that way usually.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Zardo, post: 592172, member: 12490"] I am very careful about who I talk to - mostly only those in recovery themselves or who have experienced this with a member of their direct family. Before I was so careful, I too would hear "advice" that was WAY too simplistic or something I had tried months back and if it was that easy to fix - it would have been fixed. That type of advice is frustrating to hear and often given in a judgemental way. After our recent crisis many people asked me 100 times if I wanted to talk or what they could do - this time I chose not to talk to almost any of them - it just too painful and they don't understand and certainly would not understand how it happened AGAIN. Most people assume that if a difficult child has gotten in trouble once, they would of course change their ways because WHO wild want to put themselves in that posits again. Unfortunately - it doesn't work that way usually. [/QUOTE]
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