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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 435426" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Call the Mother at "The other house" and see what it would take for her to TAKE HER PERMANENTLY. I'm serious. There are provisions that can be make through YAPS, GCOC, and she can get PAID to do this as a foster parent. No I'm not joking in the least. </p><p> </p><p>You can't change and strip her room. Much as you would like to? THIS is a little miracle in itself and something that you need to take up with Caseworker. This proves that things are going down hill fast, BUT improve for HER and improve for YOUR house when she is not there. So their little ridiculous plan of trying to do "reunification" is for squat at this time. The kid is happier when she is out of the home. Period. So something needs to be made permanent. And IF they aren't going to work it out so that the Mother down the road can become a legal foster parent or guardian? Then --------They need to find placement for her because YOUR therapist NOTICES that EVERYONE in YOUR house is Rested, peaceful, joyous, happy, well adjusted, and non-chaotic without her there. (understand where I'm going with this line of thinking?) She's happy YOU are happy. Something needs to happen because the kid is DOING what she should be doing - and she's NOT under your roof. (what ISssssssssssss the key here?) </p><p> </p><p>yeah - I'm thinking group home, Residential Treatment Center (RTC), foster care........and you all need a HUGE break from each other NOW. Which is what GCOC was supposed to give you in the first place and couldn't get their act together. Now? The kid has gone and done it herself, and it's working miracles. I would say as long as she's staying there (other house) and is not getting into any trouble? I would DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT - and present my argument to someone able to place her outside of your home. Because they are going to want to know WHAT is the WHY that she can exist OUT of your home FINE ----and not IN your home. What is the KEY ? </p><p> </p><p>As far as her staying gone? Swear to you - I'd ask the other Mother to lunch, have a Mother to Mother talk and beg her to keep her all Summer. I'd tell her flat out what's going on - (not all the details) just - we can't get along and she does great at your house - can we pony up some cash and how would you feel about her staying there this summer? Yes, I'm serious. I dunno - what do you think? Is it worth $50 a week for your sanity?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 435426, member: 4964"] Call the Mother at "The other house" and see what it would take for her to TAKE HER PERMANENTLY. I'm serious. There are provisions that can be make through YAPS, GCOC, and she can get PAID to do this as a foster parent. No I'm not joking in the least. You can't change and strip her room. Much as you would like to? THIS is a little miracle in itself and something that you need to take up with Caseworker. This proves that things are going down hill fast, BUT improve for HER and improve for YOUR house when she is not there. So their little ridiculous plan of trying to do "reunification" is for squat at this time. The kid is happier when she is out of the home. Period. So something needs to be made permanent. And IF they aren't going to work it out so that the Mother down the road can become a legal foster parent or guardian? Then --------They need to find placement for her because YOUR therapist NOTICES that EVERYONE in YOUR house is Rested, peaceful, joyous, happy, well adjusted, and non-chaotic without her there. (understand where I'm going with this line of thinking?) She's happy YOU are happy. Something needs to happen because the kid is DOING what she should be doing - and she's NOT under your roof. (what ISssssssssssss the key here?) yeah - I'm thinking group home, Residential Treatment Center (RTC), foster care........and you all need a HUGE break from each other NOW. Which is what GCOC was supposed to give you in the first place and couldn't get their act together. Now? The kid has gone and done it herself, and it's working miracles. I would say as long as she's staying there (other house) and is not getting into any trouble? I would DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT - and present my argument to someone able to place her outside of your home. Because they are going to want to know WHAT is the WHY that she can exist OUT of your home FINE ----and not IN your home. What is the KEY ? As far as her staying gone? Swear to you - I'd ask the other Mother to lunch, have a Mother to Mother talk and beg her to keep her all Summer. I'd tell her flat out what's going on - (not all the details) just - we can't get along and she does great at your house - can we pony up some cash and how would you feel about her staying there this summer? Yes, I'm serious. I dunno - what do you think? Is it worth $50 a week for your sanity? [/QUOTE]
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