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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 285177" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>wow thanks you guys so much info. i have to take time later to read through it all. i have contacted a few friends that are therapists. she's been in bed all day long and hasnt' moved an inch other than to attack difficult child when she offered her a donut and me.</p><p> </p><p>i do agree that she cannot curse me out and i told her so. i said this behavior will not be tolerated in my home by you. bottom line you can be upset, hurt, whatever even mad at me for life choices i made that affected you, hence my divorce and another biggie her not knowing her biological dad. yet at the end of the day i will help you learn how to express it the right way so we can get through this because i cannot and will not live under seige of a 16 year old.</p><p> </p><p>i think she's depressed to be honest, my friends think so as well hence the irritability and anger.</p><p> </p><p>no, she tells me she loves this house, and i have Occupational Therapist (OT) leave i'm the problem not hte mice or the ghost that luckily has calmed down (he probably couldnt take it here lol).</p><p> </p><p>therapist told me there is a fine line when a kid is in i dont' care mode, you can do the tough love approach yet they dont' care and hence nothing touches them.</p><p> </p><p>i already shut her cell down via the website for my carrier last night which was probably the reason for today's attack on me. i'm not even in work this week, becaues i can't trust her with difficult child at this point who is hurting from this. boyfriend and i are on the edge due to this new pressure, we already have 4 kids with other junk. my ptsd is kicking up awful from this so i'm scheduling appointment for therapy to get my coping skills back in place now i need it. managing the ptsd without medications is a struggle on certain days.</p><p> </p><p>and with all these presssures now a xanax is looking real good</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 285177, member: 4514"] wow thanks you guys so much info. i have to take time later to read through it all. i have contacted a few friends that are therapists. she's been in bed all day long and hasnt' moved an inch other than to attack difficult child when she offered her a donut and me. i do agree that she cannot curse me out and i told her so. i said this behavior will not be tolerated in my home by you. bottom line you can be upset, hurt, whatever even mad at me for life choices i made that affected you, hence my divorce and another biggie her not knowing her biological dad. yet at the end of the day i will help you learn how to express it the right way so we can get through this because i cannot and will not live under seige of a 16 year old. i think she's depressed to be honest, my friends think so as well hence the irritability and anger. no, she tells me she loves this house, and i have Occupational Therapist (OT) leave i'm the problem not hte mice or the ghost that luckily has calmed down (he probably couldnt take it here lol). therapist told me there is a fine line when a kid is in i dont' care mode, you can do the tough love approach yet they dont' care and hence nothing touches them. i already shut her cell down via the website for my carrier last night which was probably the reason for today's attack on me. i'm not even in work this week, becaues i can't trust her with difficult child at this point who is hurting from this. boyfriend and i are on the edge due to this new pressure, we already have 4 kids with other junk. my ptsd is kicking up awful from this so i'm scheduling appointment for therapy to get my coping skills back in place now i need it. managing the ptsd without medications is a struggle on certain days. and with all these presssures now a xanax is looking real good [/QUOTE]
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