I have had about all I can take of our oldest. We have two adult kids. The Oldest in early twentys: Odd, Boarder Line Personalty Disorder, Depression, Insonmia, there is more. I just can't think right now. The youngest earlier twentys: ADHD Our oldest was with me most of the day, getting things done. I told the adult child to go home and rest, then get things done. The problem is this, she lives not by herself, but with almost 70 yr old GP. She has her own little apartment. She can't seams to clean her own place. She was supposed to be helping her GM with the house work. But instead she starts fights. She won't listen, won't do and does nothing but run around. She is disable (was hit by car) so no income is coming in. So between GP and Use we support her in all means. We have stop putting gas in car, but that has not stop here. She baggies friends for money and so forth. I not felt good this evening, so I was in bed early. But at 1:30am we got a call. The oldest, started a fight with her 70 year old GP. She almost pushed her GM down, that has RA. She thraton the girlfriend. I end up getting up, throwing clothes on, going out in the cold and drive the 6 miles to my parent house. In the while I am doing that, I seen our D car coming toward me just flying high. I put the car sideway in the road to block her and slow her down. (no she did not like it, but oh well) We had it out on the road just before 2am, over what she did and was doing. She drove on and turn off cell phone (that is a no no in this family, and it is in the means of losing the phone. So if it is not on by noon today, it will be turned off and taken from her) I went on and check on my parents. Basically, her medications are not working, her girlfriend medications are not working, and my babysister (also in twentys) medications are not working. So they all clashed tonight over a trash can that belong to our daughter. That is what all it was about. She does not want to listen, she is in her twentys she don't have to. But yet she want everyone to kiss her back side. If we don't do what she want us to do, she throws these fits of hers and uproot the family for a few days, until I catch her sitting still and let her know what will be happening. We have gave her a place to live, feed her and so forth. We just had her car in the shop and paid for the work. But now it is time to take all that away from her and let her see what it will be like, not having a family that cares and loves her. You know what, we always thought we would have trouble out of the youngest. But he is wonderful, we have no problems and he works and pay for his own things. He would move out of here, if he made enough money to live on his own. But he has a good head, and knows he can't live alone on the money he makes. He does help us, when we ask him to. All I ever wanted, was a wonderful family, peace and quite. But I can't seam to ever have that around here. Now all I want is sleep and I can't get that. I am wide awake now. What would you do?