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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 366137" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>Occasionally, yes. Not every nosedive is tied to an event in Youngest's life, it's just that the "crisis alarm" tends to be louder and more urgent, if Youngest is having her own crisis/issues. Youngest certainly used to do the same. Oldest is her own worst enemy, for the worst part, and the cycle is continuous and is a pattern of being rescued time and time again by someone instead of facing responsibility for her actions the hard way. I do think the fact that I've helped Youngest lately, may make Oldest feel more "entitled" even if she doesn't come out and say it. </p><p></p><p>And, once again, someone has rescued Oldest. She called an ex boyfriend, who called another mutual friend in Kentucky (??!!), who has agreed to "loan" Oldest the money for her June rent. </p><p> Poor man will never see that money, of course. But Oldest bought herself another couple of weeks. This is when I am torn between, relief that she won't be homeless, but ticked off that she has taken in yet another gullible victim, and still hasn't hit "bottom."</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 366137, member: 1157"] Occasionally, yes. Not every nosedive is tied to an event in Youngest's life, it's just that the "crisis alarm" tends to be louder and more urgent, if Youngest is having her own crisis/issues. Youngest certainly used to do the same. Oldest is her own worst enemy, for the worst part, and the cycle is continuous and is a pattern of being rescued time and time again by someone instead of facing responsibility for her actions the hard way. I do think the fact that I've helped Youngest lately, may make Oldest feel more "entitled" even if she doesn't come out and say it. And, once again, someone has rescued Oldest. She called an ex boyfriend, who called another mutual friend in Kentucky (??!!), who has agreed to "loan" Oldest the money for her June rent. Poor man will never see that money, of course. But Oldest bought herself another couple of weeks. This is when I am torn between, relief that she won't be homeless, but ticked off that she has taken in yet another gullible victim, and still hasn't hit "bottom." [/QUOTE]
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