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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 564384" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Janet, they can only use that "you don't know what it is like to have family" as long as you ALLOW it. </p><p></p><p>How can you not understand what it is like to have family???? You raised THREE boys, three BROTHERS. I know dang well that Cory wouldn't just walk in on Jamie's house, wander around, load up his car with Jamie's stuff, open Jamie's car and take things, and then leave.</p><p>'</p><p>You know this also.</p><p></p><p>You had decades of family life as you raised these boys. Why is it that it is only Buck who acts this way??? He isn't Tony's only sibling and none of the other siblings act this way. Why not call Van and ask how the rest of the family acts when they want some deodorant and are with-in driving distance of their siblings??? Do they just come on over and take it?</p><p></p><p>I think this is far from Buck's first shopping trip at Janet and Tony's Walmart. I think maybe he has done this when you are not home, and he has gotten to the point he thinks that Tony won't EVER draw a boundary.</p><p></p><p>To be honest, I would be SUPER tempted to go to a pay phone, call him, and ask him to watch the dogs while you are out of town. Then go home, hide your car, hide in your room, and call 911 when he gets there and say you have an intruder, one you recognize, and that he is just taking things. Sure a setup, but not his first foray. Then press charges - cause regardless of what Buck says, it is illegal to take thing from someone's home even if they are your sibling. </p><p></p><p>in my opinion you need to start calling the cops when he does this stuff. get a cheap camcorder at BigLots and then start videotaping what you can and call the cops. Maybe if the cops tell tony how out of line this is, and if they tell Tony what kind of record Buck has, maybe then it will get him to kick this plague named Buck out of your life. </p><p></p><p>Regardless, the claims that you don't understand family are total garbage. Start throwing the fact that not even Cory would treat his siblings this way into Tony's face every single time that Buck does ANYTHING you don't like. Cause isn't Tony all down on Cory all the time???? So if it is so bad that even CORY wouldn't do this to his siblings, then it is REALLY REALLY BAD.</p><p></p><p>Even if you don't toss Cory not doing that stuff into Tony's face, tell him flat out that he is out of line to tell you that you don't understand family. You are the matriarch of your family, for crying out loud!!</p><p></p><p>I can tell you that if I went to my parents and started loading the car with-o speaking to them, I would be thrown out so fast. Now we do not knock when we go to my mom and dad's house. We open the door a bit, holler inside and go on in. But we have been ASKED to specifically do this because sometimes it is hard for my mom to get to the door or Dad is sleeping (he naps a LOT, lol). When we interacted with gfgbro? I NEVER went into his home with-o knocking. I knocked and if I didn't hear him call come in, I waited for him to get to the door. I wish he did that with our home, but he is gfgbro for a reason. We don't walk into father in law's home with-o knocking ever. The only times we have just walked in are when we KNOW they are out of town. Several times I went and spent a few days at their home while they were overseas (over several years this happened maybe once every other year). They ALWAYS were the ones to invite me to do this. They told me where the key was hidden and told their other adult kids that I would be there. </p><p></p><p>Family does NOT treat family like their own personal Walmart. in my opinion family should be MORE respectful of each other than of strangers, not less. You can tell Tony that I said this, also.</p><p></p><p>I have told gfgbro that walking into my home with-o knocking is a crime and I will call the police next time - and he KNOWS it is not a bluff. in my opinion from now on, call 911. You know that Buck is a violent person and that he is an addict. There is NO WAY his is wandering around your home looking for deodorant - that was just an afterthought. He is looking for medications, cash and easily pawnable stuff. I think if you confront him when Tony is nto home that he might get violent with you. It is a very rational fear, in my opinion. He has to feel he has Tony wrapped around his little finger, and he wants all of Tony's assets for his own. Be careful around him. Next time he comes over and in or gets itno your car with-o permission, press charges. Heck, try for a restraining order because he is going to end up hurting you or Tony. Probably you, and thne he will claim to have 'found' you like that and saved you by calling the police.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 564384, member: 1233"] Janet, they can only use that "you don't know what it is like to have family" as long as you ALLOW it. How can you not understand what it is like to have family???? You raised THREE boys, three BROTHERS. I know dang well that Cory wouldn't just walk in on Jamie's house, wander around, load up his car with Jamie's stuff, open Jamie's car and take things, and then leave. ' You know this also. You had decades of family life as you raised these boys. Why is it that it is only Buck who acts this way??? He isn't Tony's only sibling and none of the other siblings act this way. Why not call Van and ask how the rest of the family acts when they want some deodorant and are with-in driving distance of their siblings??? Do they just come on over and take it? I think this is far from Buck's first shopping trip at Janet and Tony's Walmart. I think maybe he has done this when you are not home, and he has gotten to the point he thinks that Tony won't EVER draw a boundary. To be honest, I would be SUPER tempted to go to a pay phone, call him, and ask him to watch the dogs while you are out of town. Then go home, hide your car, hide in your room, and call 911 when he gets there and say you have an intruder, one you recognize, and that he is just taking things. Sure a setup, but not his first foray. Then press charges - cause regardless of what Buck says, it is illegal to take thing from someone's home even if they are your sibling. in my opinion you need to start calling the cops when he does this stuff. get a cheap camcorder at BigLots and then start videotaping what you can and call the cops. Maybe if the cops tell tony how out of line this is, and if they tell Tony what kind of record Buck has, maybe then it will get him to kick this plague named Buck out of your life. Regardless, the claims that you don't understand family are total garbage. Start throwing the fact that not even Cory would treat his siblings this way into Tony's face every single time that Buck does ANYTHING you don't like. Cause isn't Tony all down on Cory all the time???? So if it is so bad that even CORY wouldn't do this to his siblings, then it is REALLY REALLY BAD. Even if you don't toss Cory not doing that stuff into Tony's face, tell him flat out that he is out of line to tell you that you don't understand family. You are the matriarch of your family, for crying out loud!! I can tell you that if I went to my parents and started loading the car with-o speaking to them, I would be thrown out so fast. Now we do not knock when we go to my mom and dad's house. We open the door a bit, holler inside and go on in. But we have been ASKED to specifically do this because sometimes it is hard for my mom to get to the door or Dad is sleeping (he naps a LOT, lol). When we interacted with gfgbro? I NEVER went into his home with-o knocking. I knocked and if I didn't hear him call come in, I waited for him to get to the door. I wish he did that with our home, but he is gfgbro for a reason. We don't walk into father in law's home with-o knocking ever. The only times we have just walked in are when we KNOW they are out of town. Several times I went and spent a few days at their home while they were overseas (over several years this happened maybe once every other year). They ALWAYS were the ones to invite me to do this. They told me where the key was hidden and told their other adult kids that I would be there. Family does NOT treat family like their own personal Walmart. in my opinion family should be MORE respectful of each other than of strangers, not less. You can tell Tony that I said this, also. I have told gfgbro that walking into my home with-o knocking is a crime and I will call the police next time - and he KNOWS it is not a bluff. in my opinion from now on, call 911. You know that Buck is a violent person and that he is an addict. There is NO WAY his is wandering around your home looking for deodorant - that was just an afterthought. He is looking for medications, cash and easily pawnable stuff. I think if you confront him when Tony is nto home that he might get violent with you. It is a very rational fear, in my opinion. He has to feel he has Tony wrapped around his little finger, and he wants all of Tony's assets for his own. Be careful around him. Next time he comes over and in or gets itno your car with-o permission, press charges. Heck, try for a restraining order because he is going to end up hurting you or Tony. Probably you, and thne he will claim to have 'found' you like that and saved you by calling the police. [/QUOTE]
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