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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 564782" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>What is extremely frustrating is we have never had this issue until Buck. Oh once or twice a year Tony's baby brother come's down to visit for a day and sometimes brings his wife but they are the only ones I actually like. Normally if he comes with his wife they get a motel because they want to have access to a pool. Its like a mini vacation for them. </p><p></p><p>I never did get off on the right foot with his family. Really they simply never liked me and I never liked them. Its a horribly long story but they tried to get Tony to dump me within the first six months we were together. It was really bad. I have no reason to like or trust even one of them. Tony does go down to see them and has taken the boys several times over the years but I havent been back to that area since we left in 1984. Not planning on going back either. I know there is going to be a huge firestorm when Tony dies because they will hate it when I have him cremated and only have a small viewing for my immediate family. Immediate family means me and the boys. I dont intend to have his entire clan at my house. My parents arent here, his family didnt show up when Tony got sick and they sure didnt show up when I got sick. No need to show up for anything else. The only time we hear from them is when someone graduates or gets married and they want a gift. We send a card. </p><p></p><p>One thing that I need to clear up. Buck is new to this religion stuff. When he left here in 94 or 95, he was so not into religion. He was totally into drugs. He was so bad off he didnt even come home when their grandmother died. Something Tony is still furious over. Buck turned into this religion stuff because this woman he has gotten himself involved with told him that they would pay for a ton of stuff for him if he got off drugs. She supposedly was in this recovery program through this church but I think it was only because she was running from charges. I know a few months ago she had a bench warrant out in one county close to me and Buck was afraid she was going to jail and he wanted to borrow money from Tony. I dont know if he borrowed it or not. I have my suspicions. I did a look up on warrants under Bucks name but didnt pay to actually see what the warrants were for and it said he had warrants out in SC. I think I am going to call the place in SC that it said the warrants were out of and give them a tip of where he is now. That might be why his license is suspended. He refuses to find out why its suspended, I think I will push the issue. </p><p></p><p>I think I am going to catch Buck alone as soon as I can and have a word of prayer with him and explain the facts of life. I want to do it when Tony isnt around so that if he tells Tony I said anything more than he cant walk in without calling and knocking I can tell Tony he is out of his mind. The calling thing is because Buck will sit somewhere up at the end of our driveway and watch for Tony to get home and he will follow him down the driveway and no sooner will Tony walk in the door and sit down so we can have a conversation at the end of his long work day, here comes Buck and we never even get a chance to talk at all between us. Buck stays until its time for Tony to go to bed. I really look forward to those precious few hours with Tony at the end of the day. I only get about an hour and a half to 2 hours if Im lucky. He works so hard and is so tired at the end of the day he can not stay awake past nine at the latest. I get little contact with other adults all day so my day revolves around Tony getting home at night. Buck showing up really irritates me. </p><p></p><p>And yes, Tony plays by completely different rules with Cory than he does with Buck. I am supposed to go get groceries this week from Cory because we let Cory borrow money last week. Buck has borrowed far more money and nothing has been said to him about paying us back. You can bet your sweet patootie I will be there next week asking for the 25 bucks that was used to fill up his car the week before last. Im sure he doesnt expect me to do that because he thinks he gave me 15 towards that tank but the 15 he gave me came out of the 25 Tony gave him so that wasnt even his money! Really he should owe me the whole 44!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 564782, member: 1514"] What is extremely frustrating is we have never had this issue until Buck. Oh once or twice a year Tony's baby brother come's down to visit for a day and sometimes brings his wife but they are the only ones I actually like. Normally if he comes with his wife they get a motel because they want to have access to a pool. Its like a mini vacation for them. I never did get off on the right foot with his family. Really they simply never liked me and I never liked them. Its a horribly long story but they tried to get Tony to dump me within the first six months we were together. It was really bad. I have no reason to like or trust even one of them. Tony does go down to see them and has taken the boys several times over the years but I havent been back to that area since we left in 1984. Not planning on going back either. I know there is going to be a huge firestorm when Tony dies because they will hate it when I have him cremated and only have a small viewing for my immediate family. Immediate family means me and the boys. I dont intend to have his entire clan at my house. My parents arent here, his family didnt show up when Tony got sick and they sure didnt show up when I got sick. No need to show up for anything else. The only time we hear from them is when someone graduates or gets married and they want a gift. We send a card. One thing that I need to clear up. Buck is new to this religion stuff. When he left here in 94 or 95, he was so not into religion. He was totally into drugs. He was so bad off he didnt even come home when their grandmother died. Something Tony is still furious over. Buck turned into this religion stuff because this woman he has gotten himself involved with told him that they would pay for a ton of stuff for him if he got off drugs. She supposedly was in this recovery program through this church but I think it was only because she was running from charges. I know a few months ago she had a bench warrant out in one county close to me and Buck was afraid she was going to jail and he wanted to borrow money from Tony. I dont know if he borrowed it or not. I have my suspicions. I did a look up on warrants under Bucks name but didnt pay to actually see what the warrants were for and it said he had warrants out in SC. I think I am going to call the place in SC that it said the warrants were out of and give them a tip of where he is now. That might be why his license is suspended. He refuses to find out why its suspended, I think I will push the issue. I think I am going to catch Buck alone as soon as I can and have a word of prayer with him and explain the facts of life. I want to do it when Tony isnt around so that if he tells Tony I said anything more than he cant walk in without calling and knocking I can tell Tony he is out of his mind. The calling thing is because Buck will sit somewhere up at the end of our driveway and watch for Tony to get home and he will follow him down the driveway and no sooner will Tony walk in the door and sit down so we can have a conversation at the end of his long work day, here comes Buck and we never even get a chance to talk at all between us. Buck stays until its time for Tony to go to bed. I really look forward to those precious few hours with Tony at the end of the day. I only get about an hour and a half to 2 hours if Im lucky. He works so hard and is so tired at the end of the day he can not stay awake past nine at the latest. I get little contact with other adults all day so my day revolves around Tony getting home at night. Buck showing up really irritates me. And yes, Tony plays by completely different rules with Cory than he does with Buck. I am supposed to go get groceries this week from Cory because we let Cory borrow money last week. Buck has borrowed far more money and nothing has been said to him about paying us back. You can bet your sweet patootie I will be there next week asking for the 25 bucks that was used to fill up his car the week before last. Im sure he doesnt expect me to do that because he thinks he gave me 15 towards that tank but the 15 he gave me came out of the 25 Tony gave him so that wasnt even his money! Really he should owe me the whole 44! [/QUOTE]
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