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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 465859" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Writing is cathartic, but it is not a cure. Things that were done, will NOT get undone over night, at your command, at your wished rate, at your hope, or because you say "Well I'm all better now, because I blah blah blah, so that's that." </p><p></p><p>I would say instead of delving into books on grief,(which from what I am reading, have read and continue to read about you -you need not borrow ABSOLUTELY no more of -your own or others') perhaps you should turn your sights towards books on patience. It seems you have very little for yourself, your healing, others expected time of grieving in comparison to your own, loss, and without patience I'm not quite sure you will be able to fully be able to begin to accept the prospect of working through grief.....mostly? Because understanding grief is a process that requires patience. </p><p></p><p>Yup, if I were you...I'd put down all the sad, morose commentary about splitting wood, splintering lives, twisting, tangled, gnarled hearts, darkened lives - and look perhaps for reading that was a bit more uplifting, englightening, empowering for my soul; freeing if you will - I would not teather myself further to a pit. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Darkness...only enlightens us when there is a moon shining bright in the sky, or a star to guide us. Wisemen...waited for a star.......and look what they got. - Patience and a way. Be your own star - but don't moon anyone. Trust me - it can get you into lots of trouble. </p><p></p><p>Hugs & Love </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 465859, member: 4964"] Writing is cathartic, but it is not a cure. Things that were done, will NOT get undone over night, at your command, at your wished rate, at your hope, or because you say "Well I'm all better now, because I blah blah blah, so that's that." I would say instead of delving into books on grief,(which from what I am reading, have read and continue to read about you -you need not borrow ABSOLUTELY no more of -your own or others') perhaps you should turn your sights towards books on patience. It seems you have very little for yourself, your healing, others expected time of grieving in comparison to your own, loss, and without patience I'm not quite sure you will be able to fully be able to begin to accept the prospect of working through grief.....mostly? Because understanding grief is a process that requires patience. Yup, if I were you...I'd put down all the sad, morose commentary about splitting wood, splintering lives, twisting, tangled, gnarled hearts, darkened lives - and look perhaps for reading that was a bit more uplifting, englightening, empowering for my soul; freeing if you will - I would not teather myself further to a pit. Darkness...only enlightens us when there is a moon shining bright in the sky, or a star to guide us. Wisemen...waited for a star.......and look what they got. - Patience and a way. Be your own star - but don't moon anyone. Trust me - it can get you into lots of trouble. Hugs & Love Star [/QUOTE]
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