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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 383826" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Thanks for the prayers. Keep em coming please, pretty please with sugar on it. Could probably use the chicken dance, good juju and body parts crossed too.</p><p></p><p>Bottom line : I don't want katie and the kids here unless there is simply no other choice. Period. I don't trust her husband as far as I can spit. And quite frankly since mother in law passed away this house is full of valuables he can steal and pawn, not to mention the computers and the like. Even if he didn't steal them.......the furniture alone would take about 10 mins of wild child syndrome to destroy it. Sad to say if katie can't stop Evan the youngest from ripping phones out of walls I doubt she's doing a lot to actively make him mind. </p><p></p><p>*sigh* Between the Momma Look (in which I even scare the pants off other people's kids) and the fact that Nana <strong>will so not</strong> tolerate such wild behavior in her home, I may not be such a popular Nana with Evan. I'm not a "hey you need to correct your kid cuz he/she is destroying my stuff" sort of person. I'm a stick them in time out paddle their bottom sort of person. Learned the 1st time Katie simply will not move to correct them. I hope this has changed, but I'm not counting on it much. I mean I know Evan is by no doubt a major difficult child but who does nothing when a kid yanks the phone out of the wall repeatedly?? Kayla and Alex do not seem to be out of control........but they've also just spent the past 5 months in a homeless shelter......so who knows.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for reminding me about Evan. I suspect he is severely autistic........down much further on the spectrum than Travis, perhaps on the border of true full blown autism. Alex is a bit better but not by much and then there is the MRDD thing with him as well. For Evan there is a program called Early Intervention. I hope he's not too old (I don't think he is yet) but I'm going to push her to get him evaled by them anyway. It's how we got bff's son diagnosed with the cerebral palsy. Once they diagnosis him (which won't take long he is just now talking) SS disability won't be hard to get. Katie should also be able to get it for Alex due to the MRDD as well. Except she needs to have him evaluated too because it was the school that tested and diagnosed him. Katie has only been supposed to be getting this taken care of for the past 2 yrs now. ughh She's never made it to the doctor yet, always an excuse. </p><p></p><p>She will not just sit around here making excuses if I have to I'll drag her where she needs to go........or make husband drag her.....and he knows he's is already on thin ice with me so he's not pushing his luck.</p><p></p><p>I did tell husband I still suspect drug use. katie has never in her life had seizures. Last time she was here I gathered medication info from her bio mom and during her teen years when we didn't see her no seizures. Mild chiari malformation will not cause the person to have seizures. The worst it does is sometimes cause migraines, for which there is medication, which she always had an excuse not to see the neurologist to go get for herself even though the medical card would have paid for every bit of it. Now there is no reason for a person not to seek medical treatment when the entire treatment is covered, unless they know what is causing it. (such as drug use) I'm not saying she does drugs, I'm saying that her behavior is suggestive of it and was when she was here. If she starts that crud while she's here........oh, well I can't work my head hurts to much or I might have a seizure.......well I won't have much empathy. Svck it up, you've got a family to support. Got a headache take tylenol, tylenol doesn't cut it, get your fanny to the doctor and get something that does. It doesn't change the fact that you have kids to care for. sheesh Same for her husband and his aching back which is why he got fired from his last job.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /></p><p></p><p>IF they stay here.....Katie and her husband will be worked to death. Just like I've spent the last week working husband's fingers to the bone. I simply will not tolerate Katie sitting on the couch all day making my house a pig stye and doing nothing to contribute to cleaning it like she did for months last time. Yes she was preggers.....yes she had issues, but it wouldn't have hurt her to help me clean. IF they stay here they'll work and help or they'll leave. </p><p></p><p>Man, even to me I sound b*tchy about all this. ugh! Truth is like any mother I want to give Katie a chance to turn her life around for the better. Guess I really do have the PTSD thing going on. lol <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /> And of course me going through this ordeal with the mouth/teeth isn't helping it much either.</p><p></p><p>Janet our school system I know stopped the free breakfasts a few years ago. But with the outrageous unemployment now in our area hopefully it has started up again. There is a church a few blocks away that offers free dinners at least once a week. I haven't paid much attention to whether other churches are doing the same, perhaps they're taking turns. There is a church not 5 blocks away that I know for a fact used to help pay for the motel for homeless families until they could either get an apartment or get into the shelter....all they asked was that the family go to service on sunday. A really nice church, my sister in law used to go there. I'll have Katie call them too, although they may be overwhelmed too and unable to do it now it's worth asking.</p><p></p><p>Oh, and I do need to get husband on top of the disability for Travis. I need to go through husband because he knows who the cw was who called us and told us to re-apply for him that he'd get it and wouldn't need any new evaluations to do so. Yet another thing I've forgotten with all that has been going on........crud. Oh, and guess what the hitch was the 1st time around......idiot cw put the wrong middle initial in the boy's name........admitted it to us, told us it would make no difference cause his number was the same......and yeah. Messed it all up. grrrr Hmm wonder if they'd give him back pay? Course I'll just be happy if he gets it. lol</p><p></p><p>I did go to bed I swear. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /> I'm up again because once the pain medications wore off my mind took on a life of it's own and I couldn't get it to stop. lol ughhh I am happy to say that so far having the lower teeth pulled has been a cinch compared to the top ones. *knocks on wood and hopes it stays that way*</p><p></p><p>And awwww heck, I dunno if katie was even bright enough to bring all the paperwork necessary for welfare or to get the kids into school. I told her to get it all together before she came........but if she didn't listen to me about the money, I doubt she listen to be about that either. Let's hope she has.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for letting me ramble.........poor husband can only take so much. I'm not so nice when I'm venting and using him as a sounding board. lol</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 383826, member: 84"] Thanks for the prayers. Keep em coming please, pretty please with sugar on it. Could probably use the chicken dance, good juju and body parts crossed too. Bottom line : I don't want katie and the kids here unless there is simply no other choice. Period. I don't trust her husband as far as I can spit. And quite frankly since mother in law passed away this house is full of valuables he can steal and pawn, not to mention the computers and the like. Even if he didn't steal them.......the furniture alone would take about 10 mins of wild child syndrome to destroy it. Sad to say if katie can't stop Evan the youngest from ripping phones out of walls I doubt she's doing a lot to actively make him mind. *sigh* Between the Momma Look (in which I even scare the pants off other people's kids) and the fact that Nana [B]will so not[/B] tolerate such wild behavior in her home, I may not be such a popular Nana with Evan. I'm not a "hey you need to correct your kid cuz he/she is destroying my stuff" sort of person. I'm a stick them in time out paddle their bottom sort of person. Learned the 1st time Katie simply will not move to correct them. I hope this has changed, but I'm not counting on it much. I mean I know Evan is by no doubt a major difficult child but who does nothing when a kid yanks the phone out of the wall repeatedly?? Kayla and Alex do not seem to be out of control........but they've also just spent the past 5 months in a homeless shelter......so who knows. Thanks for reminding me about Evan. I suspect he is severely autistic........down much further on the spectrum than Travis, perhaps on the border of true full blown autism. Alex is a bit better but not by much and then there is the MRDD thing with him as well. For Evan there is a program called Early Intervention. I hope he's not too old (I don't think he is yet) but I'm going to push her to get him evaled by them anyway. It's how we got bff's son diagnosed with the cerebral palsy. Once they diagnosis him (which won't take long he is just now talking) SS disability won't be hard to get. Katie should also be able to get it for Alex due to the MRDD as well. Except she needs to have him evaluated too because it was the school that tested and diagnosed him. Katie has only been supposed to be getting this taken care of for the past 2 yrs now. ughh She's never made it to the doctor yet, always an excuse. She will not just sit around here making excuses if I have to I'll drag her where she needs to go........or make husband drag her.....and he knows he's is already on thin ice with me so he's not pushing his luck. I did tell husband I still suspect drug use. katie has never in her life had seizures. Last time she was here I gathered medication info from her bio mom and during her teen years when we didn't see her no seizures. Mild chiari malformation will not cause the person to have seizures. The worst it does is sometimes cause migraines, for which there is medication, which she always had an excuse not to see the neurologist to go get for herself even though the medical card would have paid for every bit of it. Now there is no reason for a person not to seek medical treatment when the entire treatment is covered, unless they know what is causing it. (such as drug use) I'm not saying she does drugs, I'm saying that her behavior is suggestive of it and was when she was here. If she starts that crud while she's here........oh, well I can't work my head hurts to much or I might have a seizure.......well I won't have much empathy. Svck it up, you've got a family to support. Got a headache take tylenol, tylenol doesn't cut it, get your fanny to the doctor and get something that does. It doesn't change the fact that you have kids to care for. sheesh Same for her husband and his aching back which is why he got fired from his last job.:angry: IF they stay here.....Katie and her husband will be worked to death. Just like I've spent the last week working husband's fingers to the bone. I simply will not tolerate Katie sitting on the couch all day making my house a pig stye and doing nothing to contribute to cleaning it like she did for months last time. Yes she was preggers.....yes she had issues, but it wouldn't have hurt her to help me clean. IF they stay here they'll work and help or they'll leave. Man, even to me I sound b*tchy about all this. ugh! Truth is like any mother I want to give Katie a chance to turn her life around for the better. Guess I really do have the PTSD thing going on. lol :raspberry-tounge: And of course me going through this ordeal with the mouth/teeth isn't helping it much either. Janet our school system I know stopped the free breakfasts a few years ago. But with the outrageous unemployment now in our area hopefully it has started up again. There is a church a few blocks away that offers free dinners at least once a week. I haven't paid much attention to whether other churches are doing the same, perhaps they're taking turns. There is a church not 5 blocks away that I know for a fact used to help pay for the motel for homeless families until they could either get an apartment or get into the shelter....all they asked was that the family go to service on sunday. A really nice church, my sister in law used to go there. I'll have Katie call them too, although they may be overwhelmed too and unable to do it now it's worth asking. Oh, and I do need to get husband on top of the disability for Travis. I need to go through husband because he knows who the cw was who called us and told us to re-apply for him that he'd get it and wouldn't need any new evaluations to do so. Yet another thing I've forgotten with all that has been going on........crud. Oh, and guess what the hitch was the 1st time around......idiot cw put the wrong middle initial in the boy's name........admitted it to us, told us it would make no difference cause his number was the same......and yeah. Messed it all up. grrrr Hmm wonder if they'd give him back pay? Course I'll just be happy if he gets it. lol I did go to bed I swear. :raspberry-tounge: I'm up again because once the pain medications wore off my mind took on a life of it's own and I couldn't get it to stop. lol ughhh I am happy to say that so far having the lower teeth pulled has been a cinch compared to the top ones. *knocks on wood and hopes it stays that way* And awwww heck, I dunno if katie was even bright enough to bring all the paperwork necessary for welfare or to get the kids into school. I told her to get it all together before she came........but if she didn't listen to me about the money, I doubt she listen to be about that either. Let's hope she has. Thanks for letting me ramble.........poor husband can only take so much. I'm not so nice when I'm venting and using him as a sounding board. lol [/QUOTE]
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