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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 383884" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Yup Janet, husband and I already thought of that with the TANF. </p><p></p><p>I'm a bit more "together" today. Haven't needed any of the pain medications so am thinking more clearly. Do still have a bit of panic going on but that's from past experience. Right now I'm praying husband is not offering her the world in a hand basket on their way back from cincy. Due to her pulling the weekday stunt, he had to go down and pick them up alone............And that causes me to LOL. husband does not do well in a crowded car, especially one with kids in it.......3 excited kids are going to drive him insane all the way home. heheheheheh I told him last night I wasn't going with him to pick them up. Not up to it and no room in the car. As it is they'll be squished like sardines.</p><p></p><p>husband is the world's biggest svcker. The only thing that balances this out is he's also the world's biggest antisocial grouch. So I'm hoping this ride back from cincy will make him stand firm over them not living here instead of caving and saying they can. When I was making plans for worst case senerio I was thinking winter with them having no where to go.......not from the moment they flipping get here!</p><p></p><p>I have 3 county shelter numbers ready for her to call the moment she walks through the door and the phone book is marked to Community Action. I have the motel number ready for her.</p><p></p><p>Yeah, Fran. You're right. She should been grateful and humiliated she's even having to ask for help. I know I sure was whenever husband put us in that position or during that time frame when the kids and I were homeless.</p><p></p><p>I am not going to offer her to stay here. She's known for months our situation. Katie is supposed to be all about fixing things and turning her life around. Well, it's up to do her do it. I'll keep repeating in my head endlessly that she is 31, soon to be 32 yrs old for pete's sake. No excuse. That ought to keep me at a low boil enough that I won't offer much help if any at all.</p><p></p><p>That is why I'm worried husband may be promising her the moon via falling for any sob story coming out of her mouth on their way here. Man, I so hope not. Because I have no intention of making the offer for them to stay here. </p><p></p><p>She is her father's daughter...........thinks and acts just like husband. Which means she's gotta hurt to keep that desire to change, because if it doesn't affect her comfort level then she'll be fine with it. So she is still full blown difficult child status. </p><p></p><p>I can say no. I can do it. (I'm practicing as I type this) I'm just praying like mad husband hasn't already told her yes. omg ...........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 383884, member: 84"] Yup Janet, husband and I already thought of that with the TANF. I'm a bit more "together" today. Haven't needed any of the pain medications so am thinking more clearly. Do still have a bit of panic going on but that's from past experience. Right now I'm praying husband is not offering her the world in a hand basket on their way back from cincy. Due to her pulling the weekday stunt, he had to go down and pick them up alone............And that causes me to LOL. husband does not do well in a crowded car, especially one with kids in it.......3 excited kids are going to drive him insane all the way home. heheheheheh I told him last night I wasn't going with him to pick them up. Not up to it and no room in the car. As it is they'll be squished like sardines. husband is the world's biggest svcker. The only thing that balances this out is he's also the world's biggest antisocial grouch. So I'm hoping this ride back from cincy will make him stand firm over them not living here instead of caving and saying they can. When I was making plans for worst case senerio I was thinking winter with them having no where to go.......not from the moment they flipping get here! I have 3 county shelter numbers ready for her to call the moment she walks through the door and the phone book is marked to Community Action. I have the motel number ready for her. Yeah, Fran. You're right. She should been grateful and humiliated she's even having to ask for help. I know I sure was whenever husband put us in that position or during that time frame when the kids and I were homeless. I am not going to offer her to stay here. She's known for months our situation. Katie is supposed to be all about fixing things and turning her life around. Well, it's up to do her do it. I'll keep repeating in my head endlessly that she is 31, soon to be 32 yrs old for pete's sake. No excuse. That ought to keep me at a low boil enough that I won't offer much help if any at all. That is why I'm worried husband may be promising her the moon via falling for any sob story coming out of her mouth on their way here. Man, I so hope not. Because I have no intention of making the offer for them to stay here. She is her father's daughter...........thinks and acts just like husband. Which means she's gotta hurt to keep that desire to change, because if it doesn't affect her comfort level then she'll be fine with it. So she is still full blown difficult child status. I can say no. I can do it. (I'm practicing as I type this) I'm just praying like mad husband hasn't already told her yes. omg ........... [/QUOTE]
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