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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 419073" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>It was super nice of you to do all of that to help, ESP after katie didn't answer her phone and didn't follow the plans that you had made with her. in my opinion that is NOT a good sign. It is a sign of "I will do what I feel like doing even if it is different than the plans I made with you that you are going way out of your way and spending a lot of money you don't have on gas to help me out." </p><p> </p><p>I really hope that she realizes how truly unbelievable lucky and BLESSED she is to get ALL of that stuff, family to help, and a safe place to live. I am quite sure that M will try to finagle a way to live there, even if he doesn't "officially" live there because the rules. It will take katie maybe a week to realize how much WORK it is to have your own place and 3 kids who have never had any sort of rules on her own. </p><p> </p><p>I hope she doesn't complain, but I am sure it will be "too hard" to do it all by herself. And I hope and pray I am wrong. I also hope and pray the apt manager is as on top of things as you say he is. because that means at the first sign of neglect he will call CPS and at the first sign of whatever she uses to treat her headaches he will get CPS and whomever else involved to protect those kids. Esp as from what you have said she is NOT using OTC medications to treat them.</p><p> </p><p>This should give the kids some idea of what life in a home is like and I hope they push her to live up to the standards they see at Nana's house and their aunt's homes. </p><p></p><p>Sending "don't mess this up for your kids" and "don't ruin this by letting M come around/stay there ever" vibes.</p><p> </p><p>I hope the apt mgr means that M cannot be on the property. The kids have no prayer unless tehy get away from him - esp with the possible abuse of kayla. I also hope that somehow the school can arrange for them to see a therapist.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 419073, member: 1233"] It was super nice of you to do all of that to help, ESP after katie didn't answer her phone and didn't follow the plans that you had made with her. in my opinion that is NOT a good sign. It is a sign of "I will do what I feel like doing even if it is different than the plans I made with you that you are going way out of your way and spending a lot of money you don't have on gas to help me out." I really hope that she realizes how truly unbelievable lucky and BLESSED she is to get ALL of that stuff, family to help, and a safe place to live. I am quite sure that M will try to finagle a way to live there, even if he doesn't "officially" live there because the rules. It will take katie maybe a week to realize how much WORK it is to have your own place and 3 kids who have never had any sort of rules on her own. I hope she doesn't complain, but I am sure it will be "too hard" to do it all by herself. And I hope and pray I am wrong. I also hope and pray the apt manager is as on top of things as you say he is. because that means at the first sign of neglect he will call CPS and at the first sign of whatever she uses to treat her headaches he will get CPS and whomever else involved to protect those kids. Esp as from what you have said she is NOT using OTC medications to treat them. This should give the kids some idea of what life in a home is like and I hope they push her to live up to the standards they see at Nana's house and their aunt's homes. Sending "don't mess this up for your kids" and "don't ruin this by letting M come around/stay there ever" vibes. I hope the apt mgr means that M cannot be on the property. The kids have no prayer unless tehy get away from him - esp with the possible abuse of kayla. I also hope that somehow the school can arrange for them to see a therapist. [/QUOTE]
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