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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 451099" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I can understand how chapped you are. You're afraid...and you are having to face your husband's weaknesses at the same time. There's a daily "balance of power" in most homes. You have been the leader and he has been the follower. Now, due to sad and unexpected circumstances, the power has shifted. Stress!</p><p></p><p>Did the Attorney say what would happen if mother in law agreed to the three year deal and then either passed away or had a change of heart? Can a codacil be inserted that excludes the use of your home as an asset? Perhaps includes that the three year gift will be forgiven (probably not the right word) in the case of her death?</p><p></p><p>I would imagine that in addition to his basic subsurvient personality your husband may be full of fear about taking on any additional debt now with his business floundering. We're living the down side of the economy with our business and I know what that feels like. Would you meet the requirements for a new mortgage? Thank heavens I haven't had to face qualifying for one in recent years! Does either his sister or brother express any feelings about the transfer?</p><p></p><p>Again, I'm sorry you are in this situation and think it is absolutely wonderful that you are scheduled for a vacation at this time. It's been rough and getting away, being free of responsibilities, etc. may clear everyone's head. I surely hope so. Sending more hugs. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 451099, member: 35"] I can understand how chapped you are. You're afraid...and you are having to face your husband's weaknesses at the same time. There's a daily "balance of power" in most homes. You have been the leader and he has been the follower. Now, due to sad and unexpected circumstances, the power has shifted. Stress! Did the Attorney say what would happen if mother in law agreed to the three year deal and then either passed away or had a change of heart? Can a codacil be inserted that excludes the use of your home as an asset? Perhaps includes that the three year gift will be forgiven (probably not the right word) in the case of her death? I would imagine that in addition to his basic subsurvient personality your husband may be full of fear about taking on any additional debt now with his business floundering. We're living the down side of the economy with our business and I know what that feels like. Would you meet the requirements for a new mortgage? Thank heavens I haven't had to face qualifying for one in recent years! Does either his sister or brother express any feelings about the transfer? Again, I'm sorry you are in this situation and think it is absolutely wonderful that you are scheduled for a vacation at this time. It's been rough and getting away, being free of responsibilities, etc. may clear everyone's head. I surely hope so. Sending more hugs. DDD [/QUOTE]
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