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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 451101"><p>Keep focused on the trip. He sounds like he has NO self-confidence if he needs someone else's approval BEFORE making any decisions. It says something that he keeps this "power" with his family and not with you. Personally, I would take that as an insult. His family is making important decisions about YOUR family. That's just not right. I wouldn't go with the gifting scenario either. To me, that means that she can change her mind at any time for any reason and you'd still be out a home. I would definitely go with the quit claim (IF she'll agree to that) and take out your own mortgage. I would rather not have a mortgage either BUT I want a house that is mine as long as I make the payments, not relying on someone that COULD pull the rug out from under me whenever she felt like it. Stick to your guns BUT enjoy the vacation. NOT ONE NEGATIVE thought allowed. {{{{(((HUGS)))}}}}</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 451101"] Keep focused on the trip. He sounds like he has NO self-confidence if he needs someone else's approval BEFORE making any decisions. It says something that he keeps this "power" with his family and not with you. Personally, I would take that as an insult. His family is making important decisions about YOUR family. That's just not right. I wouldn't go with the gifting scenario either. To me, that means that she can change her mind at any time for any reason and you'd still be out a home. I would definitely go with the quit claim (IF she'll agree to that) and take out your own mortgage. I would rather not have a mortgage either BUT I want a house that is mine as long as I make the payments, not relying on someone that COULD pull the rug out from under me whenever she felt like it. Stick to your guns BUT enjoy the vacation. NOT ONE NEGATIVE thought allowed. {{{{(((HUGS)))}}}} [/QUOTE]
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