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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 451105" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">We decided - after the heated argument - that once the probate matter is settled, we would again meet with the attorney on this separate but related matter concerning the quit claim and/or gifting business. That will give us time to do a few things: get pre-approval for the mortgate (together we would be approved for the remaining balance on the existing mortgage which is $50,000 on a home valued as 0ver $250,000). H also has to get the sheetrock up on the studs upstairs in order for the space to be considered living space. And we will have to discuss, obviously, which option is best for everyone. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">Neither his sister/brother care about the house or property - it's always been our home. At the time of the purchase, his father took the mortgage out for H because H couldn't get approved for one. Also, we had the 5% downpayment ready but his dad stepped in and added more money (about $30,000) on a home that was only $119,000, so our mortgage payments were very reasonable. The intention was that after H and I were married, we would acquire a mortgage on our own but despite my attempts, H always had an excuse to wait. About 10 years ago, I asked H if the house was listed as ours in his father's will and he said he would ask, but never did. I kick myself now for never just asking myself. H always seemed hesitant to ask his father any pointed questions about the house, but his father never seemed to try and control us over it either so I can't understand why H was such a little boy about it. I'm nauseous just thinking about the many conversations we had about it that were never realized. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">Thanks for the hugs.</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 451105, member: 2211"] [COLOR=#000080][SIZE=2] We decided - after the heated argument - that once the probate matter is settled, we would again meet with the attorney on this separate but related matter concerning the quit claim and/or gifting business. That will give us time to do a few things: get pre-approval for the mortgate (together we would be approved for the remaining balance on the existing mortgage which is $50,000 on a home valued as 0ver $250,000). H also has to get the sheetrock up on the studs upstairs in order for the space to be considered living space. And we will have to discuss, obviously, which option is best for everyone. Neither his sister/brother care about the house or property - it's always been our home. At the time of the purchase, his father took the mortgage out for H because H couldn't get approved for one. Also, we had the 5% downpayment ready but his dad stepped in and added more money (about $30,000) on a home that was only $119,000, so our mortgage payments were very reasonable. The intention was that after H and I were married, we would acquire a mortgage on our own but despite my attempts, H always had an excuse to wait. About 10 years ago, I asked H if the house was listed as ours in his father's will and he said he would ask, but never did. I kick myself now for never just asking myself. H always seemed hesitant to ask his father any pointed questions about the house, but his father never seemed to try and control us over it either so I can't understand why H was such a little boy about it. I'm nauseous just thinking about the many conversations we had about it that were never realized. Thanks for the hugs.[/SIZE][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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