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<blockquote data-quote="bigbear11" data-source="post: 529037"><p>WOW... you weren't joking when you commented on my thread that you were on the same ride! So sorry.</p><p></p><p>Isn't it horrible when the rage is in the car? We have that occasionally with Trex... thankfully she is still in the back most of the time but that just makes it easier for her to hit me, pull my hair, etc. I normally pull over and either get out (trying to keep the doors locked so she cant) or set until she gets it together. Right or wrong... we always have a consequence for this... safety is non negotiable!</p><p></p><p>Although I know we shouldn't, I must admit it is nice to hear others admit that when they have had it, they too have lashed back. I always feel so horrible afterwards... what am I teaching her... how can I expect her to control it when I can't either. But after a while, it just happens. That is part of the reason that I struggle so with how much is actually within or out of her control. Sometimes it is like she will push it until something like that happens and then will cry and get upset that I spanked her but the rage is over. in my opinion that is more of a trantrum. But so hard to tell until that point and if it doesn't stop then, it just seems to escalate it. Beside I KNOW it is not the right way to handle it.</p><p></p><p>Hope things get better at the new school. ((HUGS))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bigbear11, post: 529037"] WOW... you weren't joking when you commented on my thread that you were on the same ride! So sorry. Isn't it horrible when the rage is in the car? We have that occasionally with Trex... thankfully she is still in the back most of the time but that just makes it easier for her to hit me, pull my hair, etc. I normally pull over and either get out (trying to keep the doors locked so she cant) or set until she gets it together. Right or wrong... we always have a consequence for this... safety is non negotiable! Although I know we shouldn't, I must admit it is nice to hear others admit that when they have had it, they too have lashed back. I always feel so horrible afterwards... what am I teaching her... how can I expect her to control it when I can't either. But after a while, it just happens. That is part of the reason that I struggle so with how much is actually within or out of her control. Sometimes it is like she will push it until something like that happens and then will cry and get upset that I spanked her but the rage is over. in my opinion that is more of a trantrum. But so hard to tell until that point and if it doesn't stop then, it just seems to escalate it. Beside I KNOW it is not the right way to handle it. Hope things get better at the new school. ((HUGS)) [/QUOTE]
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