Linda,
EXCELLENT PLAN!!! You definitely have your priorities straight. I like the fact that learning takes place from natural and logical consequences without you having to do a thing. It allows kt to learn on her own. The only time you need to intervene is for unsafe choices. This plan should definitely decrease confrontation and allow kt as much freedom as possible to be responsible for herself.
As others have already said, and I totally agree, this is a great plan for "typical" kids too!!!
You are a wonderful person and a very loving and wise parent. WFEN
