I'm back with more bad news as usual. I let my daughter back in for a overnight visit and didn't remember to lock up my wallet. She used my debit card and left me with 75$. I think she may be addicted to pain medications but I don't have absolute proof. Our family is going to moving to another state after the holidays and she will be left behind. She doesn't drive so she won't be able to drop by like here. I have a question about social media. I have a lot of FB friends either through interests or former classmates and other relatives that don't know the situation we have with her. How do you all handle it? Do you drop off the radar of the internet or block your problem kids from all your social media/texting them on the phone? I will only be harassed on both if I ignore her. Now her "friend" is trying to get money out of us by wanting to "borrow" 5K from what she says was taken from her by our problem child. If I had 5K I would stay up and watch it all night in awe! Hubs has been out of work since August and we are barely scraping by. The new job is what will be taking us out of state and the next year will be spent paying back friends and family loans that helped us survive! We however ALWAYS pay people back unlike problem child. She hasn't had a job that pays anything worthwhile in over a year. Wants to eat out constantly and has acquired 3 cats, 4 chinchillas, and 5 hamsters and a loser boyfriend! Spends any legitimate money on food and cages/accessories for the animals. I need to re-read the articles here about detaching again. UGH!