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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 746934" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Hello </p><p></p><p>I think the advice you have been given is excellent and it all comes from the heart. From being who have been there and done it. </p><p></p><p>I think you should listen to your therapist and your husband. I am more inclined to say this because of your son's age. I really agree with Newstart and she only has the one child.</p><p></p><p>My son is 23 and living with us again (mostly good experience) and I struggle with doing anything at all for him because to me that is enabling and the definition of enabling is doing something for someone that they can do for themselves which results in them being perpetually "stuck". I know you don't want to do anything that would have that effect on your son.</p><p></p><p>In the end, it's trying something different than what you have been doing that just isn't working.</p><p></p><p>Hugs. This is tough.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 746934, member: 15032"] Hello I think the advice you have been given is excellent and it all comes from the heart. From being who have been there and done it. I think you should listen to your therapist and your husband. I am more inclined to say this because of your son's age. I really agree with Newstart and she only has the one child. My son is 23 and living with us again (mostly good experience) and I struggle with doing anything at all for him because to me that is enabling and the definition of enabling is doing something for someone that they can do for themselves which results in them being perpetually "stuck". I know you don't want to do anything that would have that effect on your son. In the end, it's trying something different than what you have been doing that just isn't working. Hugs. This is tough. [/QUOTE]
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